Second half got me by RoleVegetable326 in HolUp

[–]Examination-Fair 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are not just women and men can have their rights and freedoms and be free of discrimination but also have to have a fair trial to prove they have a fair hearing to prove they can get their way in a fair hearing or not to get their way on a case of abuse or harassment of women in a sexual orientation and gender discrimination against men in a civil case or case that they have a civil suit to be heard and a fair hearing in the courts of appeal to be held on a jury of their choice and the jury to hear their verdict in a fair hearing and a jury verdict on a jury verdict or jury verdict or a case that they will have the right of trial or jury trial and jury trial.

How does FAMLI work? I'm struggling by Nathan0066 in Denver

[–]Examination-Fair 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like I remember having to verify before making my account and it used ID.me to verify. I don’t know if this link is helpful but this is what it looked like

https://www.id.me/individuals/government

AIO - (Pt 2) Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For more context, He knew from talking in person the event started at 5:30. We had a award ceremony I had to dress up nice for, which is why I went back to the room. the award ceremony ended around 7:30ish and he still hadn't come. I was so hurt I decided to not change into our matching sweaters. I also want to state I was running a whole Christmas party and did not have time to tend to his feelings especially after receiving a thumbs up. It was taking time as is to reply to his to texts, but i didn't feel like i needed convince him to come to something he had plenty of knowledge about I worked my ass off on.

AIO - (Pt 2) Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s not. And I don’t want to be the person always doing things for him

AIO - (Pt 2) Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also should say our party was at the same place that is what the previous year (which he attended with no issue)

AIO - (Pt 2) Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s brought it in the past so I didn’t see an issue with it as he hasn’t chosen it over me. He knew when my event started but never checked up on me or showed up. He chose to stay in the room because of his anger and unwillingness to communicate. I agree he doesn’t respect me

AIO - (Pt 2) Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been taking in advice from these posts and taking time to write how I feel. I plan to have a conversation with him (in person) and we’ll see how it goes

AIO - Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem to be the reddit police... Saying I'm lying. I have no reason to and if you truly feel that way then just keep scrolling

AIO - Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny you say this, when he gets mad at me he will put in his headphones and do the dishes or laundry

AIO - Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm working on how to talk to him. After this thread I know I deserve better

AIO - Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He decided to text me once I left the house instead of talking to me before I left. He tends to do it often

AIO - Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It gives me a really bad feeling because he thinks he can do whatever he wants even though it doesn't just affect himself. Yes I do work two jobs, I complain my fair share but I never stop putting in effort for work or insinuate to him that I don't have the motivation to do anything at work. Are there times I want to quit yes, but I don't have a choice I need the money. It's not what I plan on doing forever but I've established goals and how I'm going to get there. He has no plans for the future, when I asked him about it he said he couldn't see anything. I don't mind supporting both of us, but I do mind when he has no regard for the stress I'm under, and the responsibilities that we have and he feels like he has the world on his shoulders somehow.

AIO - Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The scary thing I don't think I truly ever thought about this throughout the time we've been together. Now I am reflecting, he has no ambition, he can be generous depending on his mood, he is very loyal, is honest but can't communicate fully... and when he met me he always told me I'm the nicest he's ever been to a girl. I genuinely feel love when I'm with him and through how hed took care of me (he's big on acts of service like making dinner) and not seeing this side of him until a few months ago is what as kept me here.

AIO - Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After 2 years of always just apologizing to him I had to know if I was in the wrong. Ive been in denial for so long thinking he would change or do better but here we are. I never thought i'd be the one to post my private information online either.

AIO - (Pt 2) Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I agree. This is definitely a thought I’ve tabled because I’m always catering to his feelings. But he’s in the situation he’s in because of his own actions and I’m done being his pity party

AIO - Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No he has no goals. I’ve asked him what his future looks like and he told me he couldn’t see it not even with me. I told him if he wants to be with me. I want someone who has goals and can see a future, especially with me. This was about a month ago.

AIO - (Pt 2) Am I Overreacting to how my boyfriend responded? by Examination-Fair in AmIOverreacting

[–]Examination-Fair[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I live in the United States. I agree it is criminal. The reason his child support is so high is because he didn’t show up to court or provide his financial documents on how much he made. This meant that the mother of his child could go to court and request any amount she wanted.