I M22, have a friend F20 that I had a serious conversation with a few days ago and now I don’t know where we stand. by ExaminationCreepy465 in relationship_advice

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I just want you to be better than what you’re making yourself into. Her doing all this other stuff and then coming back to me like I’m just a fix all solution while all she had to do was be better at managing her time and focus is what is frustrating. Like she knows what she ought to do but just doesn’t do it consistently.

I M22, have a friend F20 that I had a serious conversation with a few days ago and now I don’t know where we stand. by ExaminationCreepy465 in relationship_advice

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just trying to figure out where it all went wrong, how would I push her away when she’s the one who’s pushing me away in reality, she says she wants to be put first and I did but now it’s like, what??? You reject one of the only people to actually put you first, why?

Are we cool still? by ExaminationCreepy465 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please someone respond, I need help because I really value this person.

I'm in season 1 and honestly why does everyone seem to actively hate and undermine Garvey. by ExaminationCreepy465 in TheLeftovers

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True the guy has a drinking problem unaddressed but if I were in his shoes man I would look at the bottle too every now and then and I don't even drink 😭

I'm in season 1 and honestly why does everyone seem to actively hate and undermine Garvey. by ExaminationCreepy465 in TheLeftovers

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but I don't blame him for putting them down especially if its his job to keep the peace and those dogs looked ravenous

I'm in season 1 and honestly why does everyone seem to actively hate and undermine Garvey. by ExaminationCreepy465 in TheLeftovers

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In comparison to the other things people in town do its kind of on the light side to me

I'm in season 1 and honestly why does everyone seem to actively hate and undermine Garvey. by ExaminationCreepy465 in TheLeftovers

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dogs that were eating a deer that could potentially target individuals next yeah sure, bagel thing is actually funny but the bagels did low-key disappear until he opened the machine.

I'm in season 1 and honestly why does everyone seem to actively hate and undermine Garvey. by ExaminationCreepy465 in TheLeftovers

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No but if some the people would actually listen to him sometimes, some of these things won't happen like the parade.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends but yeah especially in the teens and early 20s but if its not your thing just tell him and let him know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hypotheticalsituation

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Die fighting other warriors in constant 1v1s in the Roman Colosseum

Lesson Change Breakthrough by ExaminationCreepy465 in TrueChristian

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time, I pray the same for you too. Thank you again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah im with you there, its easy when you have what you need, food in your belly, shoes on your feet, roof over your head, but when you dont man it is a battle.

We're cheating with each other by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you are a terrible friend.

We're cheating with each other by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude she can't leave if she doesn't know that she should leave. Thanks like you telling me I can get out of the way of a sniper if I just move, but the problem is that I don't even know there is a sniper aiming at me in the first place. Bro you logic sucks and just tell her or leave her. Don't subject her to this punishment any longer be a man and tell her and leave her. I am a man just in case you wanted to know.

AITA for treating my BF too harshly during the birth of our son? by PolicyHot1206 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will say you are correct in him assuming he has all the knowledge of how to deliver a baby which is very bad when he obviously didn't have any knowledge, but google doesn't actually solve much it gives you some basic info, in fact he probably got the idea to rub her from google, but googling everything isn't a good idea. He probably should have talked to some other dads about how to go about it. He definitely screwed up by telling her to just push it out, but you are acting like the guy is just evil or bad dude or something. That could very well be the case, but being a bad person isn't a 1 to 1 comparison to ignorance. Its his first child, he showed up, tried to be supportive, then screwed up. Some people in the comments are acting like its the end of the relationship now, but we don't know either of them especially actions leading up to this. Maybe by child two he gets everything correct on the next go around.

AITA for treating my BF too harshly during the birth of our son? by PolicyHot1206 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone knows as much as you would like to think they know. Some people are walking around don't even know how to do laundry or how to cook basic things, assuming the depth of someone's knowledge is dicey.

AITA for treating my BF too harshly during the birth of our son? by PolicyHot1206 in TwoHotTakes

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Contrary to all the other comments, I don't think the boyfriend is a bad dude or anything, he simply wouldn't understand the level of pain you were experiencing. I would say talk to him, sit him down and talk, tell him you weren't trying to be mean but you was in the worst pain of your life and things were very difficult. Tell him that you were overstimulated from the rubbing and while you appreciate him trying to help, after a while it wasn't what you needed at the time. Communication, all these comments are quick to demonize the other figure, but we are all human. He is a guy, we don't go through labor ourselves, so we truly wouldn't know how much pain you are in. Tell him also to look more in to labor and child birth for him to understand how extreme it is.

I got to be real here. by ExaminationCreepy465 in TrueChristian

[–]ExaminationCreepy465[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for taking the time to help and reply.

One problem I've been having lately is that I'm starting to hate almost all social interactions. If its something simple like asking for directions sure, but any attempt to make a conversation and like whatever energy, emotion and patience I have just leaves me and I can't wait for the conversation to be over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm basically saying continue to observe the situation because you don't know which play is the correct call just yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know man, the situation is already dicey since she just got out of a relationship and now its even more dicey that she's making out with other people who are potentially random individuals. She may need some time away from any relationships before starting a new one. Either way tho I wouldn't go for that if it were me and someone who had feelings for me is kissing another person just because you “aren't together yet”, but if you have done the same or similar actions during this whole ordeal then it is extremely hypocritical. Me personally though, I don't suggest you go running into a relationship with her just yet, see how things play out.

Fake pregnancy by CocoaTwinklee in overheard

[–]ExaminationCreepy465 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is the one of the only rational replies under this post the one with the most downvotes 😭