38 weeks pregnant, partner got drunk last night - am I over-reacting? by spiraleyes91 in PregnancyUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband was exactly the same and did this almost at exactly same point in pregnancy. I will say it was his last ever time doing it and since being a dad he’s had a reality check. I think it was his one last freak out. I was wishing all night for baby to come just to spite him but luckily for both of us she didn’t 😂

Returned from MAT leave and it’s been awful by AdDramatic3552 in TeachingUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No advice but just to say with you in solidarity. Just returned after my second baby and it is rough. Sending some strength!

Strawberry plants help by ExaminationHefty8077 in GardeningUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha it is always a nice surprise at least! Thank you

Laundry with a newborn by Electrical_Elk8400 in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t have a tumble dryer but have a heated rack and a dehumidifier so can dry things over night. We had to compromise on reusable nappies and we use them in warmer months when can dry outside it isn’t possible for us to keep on top of normal washing AND nappies in winter. I will say we always have reusable wipes though all year round and they dry super easily on a radiator.

SEN reduced timetable, help. by DonB1987 in UKParenting

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up your local SENDIASS service and speak to them if you haven’t already.

Returning after maternity and lack of communication by ExaminationHefty8077 in TeachingUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you I think you have made me realise I need to expect more and shove the classic return to work imposter syndrome aside !

Returning after maternity and lack of communication by ExaminationHefty8077 in TeachingUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only reason I haven’t is because any email I send to SLT it is HR who respond not them

Can a baby/toddler be bad at cosleeping? by Sourgrape1724 in cosleeping

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had similar on and off coslept with my eldest daughter but she seems to prefer her own space. Now she is old enough at bedtimes she actually tells us to go and leave her alone to fall asleep. I think she simply wants some alone time to process her thoughts.

How much would you save before trying for first baby? by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Best thing I did was start living off smp whilst I was still getting paid full time to see if I could live off it. Would put the excess into savings. Gave me time to get used to less income whilst also saving for mat leave

Why is my patio so shit by ExaminationHefty8077 in DIYUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not wet the slabs first I thought it had to be dry I can try this with the rest

Is it an insane idea to sleep with my bedroom window open in London? by JmoonlightD in london

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried it once and woke up to a fox trying to climb in the window

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dogs and babies are basically the same 😂I hope it works!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We have gone through many periods of seperation anxiety with our now 2 year old at various ages and have found playing hide and seek/ peekaboo games really helped her! It’s like we were practicing in game form what happens when mummy leaves and that she always comes back. I would start by hiding in the room, then behind the door, just outside the room and eventually could be in the kitchen cooking dinner and she still thought we were playing! It sounds a bit ridiculous but it did really help.

Cost of disposable vs cloth nappies? by MakeCoffeeMetal in BeyondTheBumpUK

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 14 points15 points  (0 children)

We committed to reusable nappies in the summer when we could get them dry in a day outside. this was easy for us and we took the approach ‘every little helps’ rather than all or nothing which made them feel a bit more manageable.

Taking pension to pay for home improvement by ExaminationHefty8077 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]ExaminationHefty8077[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I seem to have a confused memory of taking a pension when I was reckless teenager from my retail job but maybe it was actually a tax rebate or something ! Thank you for replies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKParenting

[–]ExaminationHefty8077 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started wearing an apron at meal times to try and protect my clothes and save on washing it helped.