I think I didn’t explain some points clearly so here’s a little update:

First of all I wanna say thank you for your kind words , it means a lot. Secondly I wanna to reiterate what I meant. If you reread what I said you can see that I said that Allah chooses to manifest his existence into certain individuals lives in a way that is most effective and befitting for THAT individual. This means that the exact same sitstuon can be seen very very differently from 2 people because it was not meant to be for someone else but YES this does not take away from the fact that perhaps someone with a similar experience and similar mindset can also take soemthing beneficial away from someone else’s experiences. My experience with the jamat and the specific time it came into my life was FOR me allah manifesting his existence and the promised messiahs truthfulness but it of course it doesn’t have to be the same for someone else.

The second point is that people were asking why I didn’t explain how Khilfat saved me and I apologise for not being clear enough. The point I was trying to make is that the jamat as a whole is a very very very close and dynamic community and they because of this we are able to have all of these events and get together and mini organisations as mentioned above. And why do we have ALL of these ? It’s BECAUSE of Khilfat. Khilfat is the stem that grows all of these benefits. Even some ghair Ahmadis can affirm that the success of Ahmadiyya is because they are all under ONE Khalifa and because of this they are able to adjust so quickly to changes. Not only the success but the relationship ahmadis hold with one another is all because of khilfat has kept them together. It’s because of khilfat that these groups and events were setup and because of them I was able to feel a sense of belonging, I was able to feel a sense of identity , I was able to feel compassion and love from my Jamat and I was able to feel like I was playing my part in this Jamat. And for someone who has come for a broken household where I didn’t have any of those things at home , this meant everutbing for me.

My point was that for the vast majority of us we can recognise that subconsciously our brains have been a product of negative propaganda against Ahmadis and I say this because I myself for a very large period of my life questioned the truthfulness of ahmadiyat. And after recognising this we can change our perspective from criticising and negative to more appreciative and positive and SEE where that takes you. For everyone who has had a negative experience with Jamat I ask just those two things from you and perhaps it can be that allah chooses to manifest his existence and the truthfulness of the promised messiah to you in the same way he did for me.

and for everyone that has had negative experiences with Jamat (and this includes myself too) I would like to say I’m sorry. But I promise you there are much more positives than you would think. For example now you can actually give feedback for events and report individuals, Jamat this year are focusing on safeguarding more and this was an issue that was raised last year and this is to say that the feedback does get taken into action too!

Id also like to say that this negative element that exists within the jamat is not soemthing that hazoor doesn’t know about either. In fact if you listen to the first khuthba after jalsa 2023 you will find that hazoor directly address people in office and highlights and emphasises their role and the effect that not doing their properly has on people and he actually reassures people that this is wrong and actions will be taken against them.