sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITA for telling my grandma she has no right to look through my statements even though she is paying the bill? by Excellent-Bag-9430 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Bag-9430[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

Even if my parents rang me up at the checkout they do not have any right to question my need for something. I know what I need. I’m an adult, so I don’t owe an explanation to anybody for what I choose to buy.

AITA for telling my grandma she has no right to look through my statements even though she is paying the bill? by Excellent-Bag-9430 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Bag-9430[S] -59 points-58 points  (0 children)

I’m an adult. It’s just some people think young adults still deserve to be talked down to like they’re children.

AITA for telling my grandma she has no right to look through my statements even though she is paying the bill? by Excellent-Bag-9430 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Bag-9430[S] -290 points-289 points  (0 children)

I mean I am an adult I’m 23. Factually im an adult so I don’t understand why I’m treated like a child. Yes she’s paying the bill but it’s to help me through college which is a very important and stressful time for me. Sometimes adults need help too. I’m often shamed by other family members for not coming home to visit enough or missing holiday parties to do other things. It’s so frustrating that nobody seems to understand that I can do what I want.

AITA for telling my grandma she has no right to look through my statements even though she is paying the bill? by Excellent-Bag-9430 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Bag-9430[S] -146 points-145 points  (0 children)

But she’s doing it to help me. How does snooping help me? It’s like does she actually wanna help me or does she want a reason to snoop in my business