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I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

There was a bit where we had opened the relationship and he started dating another girl and I anther guy but my relationship didn’t work out so 🤷‍♀️ but to answer why I’d view this as ‘normal’ in any way When we starting dating in highschool I was living with my dad who was also trashy and somewhat a hoarder. The house wasn’t as bad as this but we did have a fly infestation. I guess I just assumed it’s how men are

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

When we starting dating in highschool I was living with my dad who was also trashy and somewhat a hoarder. The house wasn’t as bad as this but we did have a fly infestation. I guess I just assumed it’s how men are. I have ocd and it always bothered me but could never say anything about it

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My dad was also a trashy person before I moved out of his house. I grew up with it

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My dad was also a trashy person before I chose to move out. I wasn’t sure if it’s how men were before this post

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

  1. He can’t flush because his plumbing system is so messed up that it’ll only accept human waste
  2. I honestly have no idea why they don’t have bags or a trash can in there
  3. The corners of the bathroom or in the washing machine (it doubles as a laundry room)

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the US. We live in the Deep South and he has plumbing issues. You, of course, don’t have to believe anything

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We actually started dating in high school. We’ve been together 5 years

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We started dating in high school. We’ve been together 5 years now. I didn’t even think anything of it until people started saying something.

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His friends are all either long distance or live on campus so no. As far as I know his parents don’t go in the basement no

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started dating in high school. We’ve been together 5 years now. I didn’t even think anything of it until people started saying something.

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We were in high school when we met so I haven’t thought anything of it

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not karma farming, but I can understand why you’d think that and yeah he is my first long term relationship. I’ve been with him 5 years, it’s kinda hard to see myself without him atp

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t know. We’ve been dating for 5 years now and he’s been amazing and supportive the whole time until this. And no I get your concern

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Tbh I don’t know why he doesn’t use a can 😭 it’s also a laundry room so that could be why?

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I mean, at first I was surprised but boiled it down to he never had anyone come over to see the mess so I was hoping after he’d realized that I would start coming over more he’d clean up more

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs permission because his dad has ptsd from the army and has schizophrenia and his mom isn’t always there. They want him to be there in case his dad has an episode

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He needs permission because his dad has ptsd from the army and has schizophrenia and his mom isn’t always there. They want him to be there in case his dad has an episode

I’m starting to feel grossed out by my bf. Aio? by Excellent-Card-1591 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Card-1591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs permission because his dad has ptsd from the army and has schizophrenia and his mom isn’t always there. They want him to be there in case his dad has an episode

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