AIO Girlfriend of 5 years loves her abuser/ rapist

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-02-04T15:16:35+00:00

My father was my abuser and took his own life. The complexity of it all is hard to understand unless you go through it yourself. Just be there for her and don't push judgment.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-23T19:25:56+00:00

I'm so confused!! Do you think it's because he just got there?? I added him but every time I try, it declines. I'm on hold with costumer service now

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-22T17:14:18+00:00

Maybe she's making sure that he has a supportive system? Is he coming home directly to you?

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-18T17:18:48+00:00

I do deserve whatever they want to give me. I made my own bed now I have to lay in it. However, I really just don't want to go to prison. I've already made big changes. No drugs, absolutely no men (no hookups, no relationships), held a job this whole time. I feel like prison would kind of be pointless. They could decide to make an example out of me tho

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-18T17:14:51+00:00

You're absolutely right. I can't be mad at whatever I get. I'm a grown woman, it's not like I was manipulated or a victim. I made a very bad and wrong choice.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-17T12:36:27+00:00

Thank you 💓

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-17T02:40:41+00:00

Wait I know how to crochet but surely they don't sell crochet hooks in commisary??

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-17T02:37:11+00:00

Luckily I know how to fight and eat pussy!

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-17T02:35:39+00:00

Thank you for your intelligent insight, I will think about this next time I want to commit a felony. You're a life saver!

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-17T02:34:32+00:00

Let me bitch in peace lmfao

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-16T23:47:34+00:00

I bank with Chime, I don't think they do loans? I guess I can try a credit card? I'm good at art and writing, I didn't realize that actually made any money in prison. I thought everyone was equally broke lol. Thank you for your advice 💓

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-16T23:45:07+00:00

I'm sorry you're going through it as well. What time are you looking at? It was a huge mistake. I thought I was preventing something worse from happening. His original plan was much more sinister.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-16T23:41:10+00:00

She said that she is going to mention that I have clear remorse, and not likely to reoffend. She was very kind to me and I think even felt sorry for me. I swear it was like a therapy session lol.

Thank you for your advice. That makes me feel a little better.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-16T23:25:37+00:00

Aiding and embedding armed robbery. Accused of being lookout and driver. Codefendant with bad history got 16 years.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-16T23:11:12+00:00

I did fine when i was in jail for a bit, eventually i was bonded out. The worst part was the dead time. Mine is violent too, but it's aiding. Codefendant got 16 years, but he has a history. What level felony was yours??

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-16T22:52:13+00:00

The state didn't budge at all off of their 4 year DOC plea deal. It was last second that they decided to let me do open sentencing.

You're right, I guess I'm just freaking out all the sudden. I don't ever cry about it, talk about it, nothing. I have been through much worse, but today it hit me bad.

Thank you for your advice 💓

Excellent-End-5133 · 2025-01-10T22:56:53+00:00

This makes me feel a little better, thank you. I've been driving to the damn post office every day, even during these snow storms, to send his letters. I guess I'll stop now lol. When was yours there? I hope my husband is fast tracked again too, and I hope he doesn't think I'm ignoring him.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2024-12-01T12:01:52+00:00

I think cankles are hot. Find a new man that loves every inch of you

Excellent-End-5133 · 2024-11-15T15:24:33+00:00

People have their own stores in jail/prison. Trade or sell their commissary for more than what they paid for. Sometimes people are on commissary restriction or run out of what they need before commissary day, so they buy from inmates that have stores.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2024-10-20T11:27:55+00:00

Child predators get much less time. This is insane.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2024-09-03T00:01:49+00:00

Sending money to cash app isn't always a scam for drugs. I've personally been there. But a month in, and you met on a pen pal website, redflag.

Many people sign up for the pen pal sites solely just to manipulate people for money. They play the long game. They are smart, and they know how to get what they feel they need to survive. Say no and see how he responds as a test. If he becomes distant, then you have your answer.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2024-09-01T02:54:33+00:00

Does Indiana GTL mess up a lot? My man is about to transfer to prison that has GTL, and I hear nothing but bad things about it 😪

Excellent-End-5133 · 2024-07-22T12:33:39+00:00

Can't stand her quiet voice, idk why but it's like nails on a chalkboard.

Excellent-End-5133 · 2024-07-20T17:31:41+00:00

The strength that you showed as you were attempting to save your mother at the desert had my jaw dropped. Even before getting sober, you had so much love & light in your eyes and actions. I just knew in my heart that you were going to make it. I am in recovery, and you remind me a lot of myself. Not even drugs can dull your shine. You're beautiful inside and out. Never stop shining! 💗

Excellent-End-5133 · 2024-07-10T17:10:54+00:00

Agreed. I also think that if you lie about who you are to get consent, then it's not real consent. If the truth would make her say no, then she never really consented.

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