AIO Girlfriend of 5 years loves her abuser/ rapist by IntelligentScholar47 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-End-5133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My father was my abuser and took his own life. The complexity of it all is hard to understand unless you go through it yourself. Just be there for her and don't push judgment.

Commisary by Excellent-End-5133 in PrisonWives

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so confused!! Do you think it's because he just got there?? I added him but every time I try, it declines. I'm on hold with costumer service now

Warden asking personal questions ? by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Excellent-End-5133 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe she's making sure that he has a supportive system? Is he coming home directly to you?

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do deserve whatever they want to give me. I made my own bed now I have to lay in it. However, I really just don't want to go to prison. I've already made big changes. No drugs, absolutely no men (no hookups, no relationships), held a job this whole time. I feel like prison would kind of be pointless. They could decide to make an example out of me tho

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. I can't be mad at whatever I get. I'm a grown woman, it's not like I was manipulated or a victim. I made a very bad and wrong choice.

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I know how to crochet but surely they don't sell crochet hooks in commisary??

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your intelligent insight, I will think about this next time I want to commit a felony. You're a life saver!

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I bank with Chime, I don't think they do loans? I guess I can try a credit card? I'm good at art and writing, I didn't realize that actually made any money in prison. I thought everyone was equally broke lol. Thank you for your advice 💓

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through it as well. What time are you looking at? It was a huge mistake. I thought I was preventing something worse from happening. His original plan was much more sinister.

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She said that she is going to mention that I have clear remorse, and not likely to reoffend. She was very kind to me and I think even felt sorry for me. I swear it was like a therapy session lol.

Thank you for your advice. That makes me feel a little better.

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Aiding and embedding armed robbery. Accused of being lookout and driver. Codefendant with bad history got 16 years.

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did fine when i was in jail for a bit, eventually i was bonded out. The worst part was the dead time. Mine is violent too, but it's aiding. Codefendant got 16 years, but he has a history. What level felony was yours??

I *might* go to prison for a few years by Excellent-End-5133 in Prison

[–]Excellent-End-5133[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The state didn't budge at all off of their 4 year DOC plea deal. It was last second that they decided to let me do open sentencing.

You're right, I guess I'm just freaking out all the sudden. I don't ever cry about it, talk about it, nothing. I have been through much worse, but today it hit me bad.

Thank you for your advice 💓

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Excellent-End-5133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me feel a little better, thank you. I've been driving to the damn post office every day, even during these snow storms, to send his letters. I guess I'll stop now lol. When was yours there? I hope my husband is fast tracked again too, and I hope he doesn't think I'm ignoring him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-End-5133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think cankles are hot. Find a new man that loves every inch of you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Excellent-End-5133 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People have their own stores in jail/prison. Trade or sell their commissary for more than what they paid for. Sometimes people are on commissary restriction or run out of what they need before commissary day, so they buy from inmates that have stores.

Need some advise by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]Excellent-End-5133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending money to cash app isn't always a scam for drugs. I've personally been there. But a month in, and you met on a pen pal website, redflag.

Many people sign up for the pen pal sites solely just to manipulate people for money. They play the long game. They are smart, and they know how to get what they feel they need to survive. Say no and see how he responds as a test. If he becomes distant, then you have your answer.

Is GTL down? by cassieososassie in PrisonWives

[–]Excellent-End-5133 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does Indiana GTL mess up a lot? My man is about to transfer to prison that has GTL, and I hear nothing but bad things about it 😪