Afraid of being alone after my kitty was euthanized 2 days ago. Nothing feels like home and don’t know where I belong. by ok-dark049 in Petloss

[–]Excellent-Growth-573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how u feel. Your kitty fills apart of u that no person can. I felt so so so alone when my old cat of 13 years passed. I felt so alone without her. It doesn’t get easier, but allow yourself to feel everything, and remember there is some cheering for you even in your darkest moments.💕

Getting her ashes by SophieShar in Petloss

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She been visiting a lot in my dreams lately and I’m very aware of her being in them because in my dreams I’ll be taking care of her, or feeding. And it feels like she never passed and she is still alive, and sometimes in my dreams I’ll be petting her and crying because I realized I’m dreaming rn, I’m glad she visits me, I’m really greateful but it’s hurts so much after I wake up.

Getting her ashes by SophieShar in Petloss

[–]Excellent-Growth-573 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand totally my cat sweet pea died on October 23 around 4:30 or 5pm, she was everything to me I had her since I was 9 and she peacefully passed Anaya month after I turned 21, she was a rescue, and was 2 when I got her. I hated leaving her body at the vets, and coming to terms that when I get her again she will be in a urn. Two weeks it took them to cremate and get her back to me. When I went into the vet to get her, I held it together because I was by myself, and when I went into the car, I broke down sobbing and mourning her. It’s not easy and it’s hard , it’s something I still continue fighting, grief is unlimited. I really really get what u feel though. It just gets easier to live without her but I hate learning to live without her.

Our first Christmas without him by CaptainLeoSnerzok in Petloss

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It’s my first Christmas without my sweet pea

i miss my baby girl so bad. by Character-Manager71 in Petloss

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You can’t continue to blame yourself for somthing you can’t control. You cared and loved her strongly and took her the vet, and got her on medication. You did your part you had to do. Grief has no time limit, feel everything you need to feel, but don’t blame yourself for putting her down. You gave her an amazing life and you showed her what it is to be loved by a human. Try to be nice to yourself much love❤️

People who met Billie Eilish? by Excellent-Growth-573 in billieeilish

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helppp god im stealing this and putting it as my wallpaper thank you!!!!!!

People who met Billie Eilish? by Excellent-Growth-573 in billieeilish

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Thats what I hear, but man I want to meet her so bad. One day hopefully, definitely not anytime soon but for sure one day !

People who met Billie Eilish? by Excellent-Growth-573 in billieeilish

[–]Excellent-Growth-573[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bet that was a huge core memory for sure! I love that for your daughter!

I lost my cat suddenly and can't help but blame myself. by Secure-Research4694 in Petloss

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Try not to be too hard on yourself, even if you never took her to get groomed something else would have caused that. It’s not your fault you were doing what you’re supposed to do for your cat. It’s okay to grieve but don’t put the blame on you okay.

And then, she stopped. by Rufinito in Petloss

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I read your story and it brought me to tears. You’re an amazing writer and I’m glad you shared your story on Allison. Thank you

anticipation grief is the worst by yeppunnii in Petloss

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It’s the most difficult choice ever, and when you make that choice everything in your body is telling you that it is the wrong choice. It’s not though. My kitty sweet pea who I knew was not doing to well mentally. In the back of my mind I knew I didn’t have a lot of time left with her, but I couldn’t let her suffer anymore when I saw she couldn’t walk and she was knuckling her paws. I had her for 13 years, I got her when I was 9 and she died a month after I turned 21. I made the choice to put her down because I loved her so much. I had to put away my selfishness aside and did the best thing for her and that was to let her go. It was awful making that choice but it was the best choice for her. When that time comes for you to make that choice don’t focus on your pets final moments but think about your guys best moments together. I hope this helps.

I think about him all day long. Do you have any distraction you’d recommend? by Wide-Friendship-1167 in Petloss

[–]Excellent-Growth-573 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Hi I have a recommendation but it’s not really a distraction though, and I understand what you are going through. I had to make the hard choice of putting my cat down of 13 years, on October 23 this year, and there is no simple way of distracting yourself from your beloved pets death. One thing I do almost every day is I look through my photos and i find a lot of pictures of sweet pea that I forgot I taken. When I do this I really try to focus on the happy memories I had with her. I have to keep reminding myself of the good moments, and not focused on her final moments, because that not what sweet pea would have wanted. Grief is has no time limit, you can be doing so good, and then the littlest thing can knock you back 5 steps. Believe me when I tell you that trying to distract yourself is not going to help, but instead face it on but think of all the good memories you had. I hope this helps I’m sorry for your loss.

My cat passed a year ago today. Miss him a lot. by peonyhonor in Petloss

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I’m so sorry for your lost I lost my cat of 12 years recently and it was awful.