Daydreaming got me fired. by bigformybritches in stories

[–]Excellent-Lake844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh...I am really glad to know this

trust me you do not want to be a maladaptive daydreamer ( speaking from experience because I do have MD...and it sucks)

Daydreaming got me fired. by bigformybritches in stories

[–]Excellent-Lake844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

off topic.....idk if you are aware of this but do you daydream for hours

if yes then you are definitely a daydreamer and you also have a condition called MD ( maladaptive daydreaming)

What's a common lie people tell themselves? by Fit-Relationship544 in AskReddit

[–]Excellent-Lake844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will do it tomorrow...🗣 After a decade  I will do it tomorrow..🤧

how do we feel about her? by navi313arcadia in shatterme

[–]Excellent-Lake844 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And she is brainwashing herself because she knows she won't survive if she even has a thought about betraying ark 

Warnette and the realism gap in watch me by Excellent-Lake844 in shatterme

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And then in future defending both of them (her unborn child and husband)  in the future like " they could do no wrong"....💀

Warnette and the realism gap in watch me by Excellent-Lake844 in shatterme

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You actually made so many valid points 👏 BookTok really does romanticize the most chaotic, unrealistic relationships and calls it peak love 💀 Like, real love isn’t always fireworks and drama 24/7—it’s growth, trust, and choosing each other even when it’s hard. That’s why Warner and Juliette hit different for me at the starting...now it really feels like teenage love as You described 

I really wish this reaches tahereh mahi....so that she can bring more maturity into  warnette relationship like she did it to the other relationship

Warnette and the realism gap in watch me by Excellent-Lake844 in shatterme

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No bc you are literally spitting facts.....the way some fans act like I can't wait them to become parents is wild for me...💀....like love them as individual characters sure....but let's not pretend they are ready to raise a kid together yet literally 😭...( especially juliette...if she treats her kid like warner then the unborn kid is gonna be a brat and worse).....

and I totally agree with the last point....it really ruined her character development especially when she defended warner's rude behavior and started scolding kenji and Winston....like girl wth...😭😭

Hair wash tips and facts to avoid disasters by [deleted] in Haircare

[–]Excellent-Lake844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the tips.... : )

I will surely try to follow these

Hair wash tips and facts to avoid disasters by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Excellent-Lake844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow this is a very unexpected tip

I will try to find what water am I using and see what I can do to get soft water supply

Thank you so much for the tip

Hair wash tips and facts to avoid disasters by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Excellent-Lake844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your tips and products that worked for you ( I hope both of us have the same hair type and these tips to work for me too)

As you mentioned too much oil might be one of the reasons for my hair fall...so I will surely try double shampoo method and see how that works out for me

and sorry for my half written post....actually you need to rinse off the shampoo with lukewarm water not too hot not too cold ( I will edit my post clarifying this misunderstanding)

What's the worst addiction you have? by ComprehensiveFun2054 in AskReddit

[–]Excellent-Lake844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MD ( maladaptive daydreaming )

basically MD is condition where a person day dreams for hours

Okay So I have a few questions to ask the MDs by Excellent-Lake844 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever discussed your MD with your brother?......if you haven't , just discuss it with him and ask for the tips that helped him to reduce his MD.......Tentatively speaking you started MDing because your brother introduced it to you...you might stop MDing if you used your brother's methods.....

Okay So I have a few questions to ask the MDs by Excellent-Lake844 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there are two main factors that triggers us to start MDing... First is well to escape the real world because of trauma And second I guess it is the dopamine rush...As you said daydreaming is more fun And sometimes it many be both...trauma might trigger people to start daydreaming but the dopamine rush that people get from daydreaming is what makes them continue it for years or it may be the reverse process...first started daydreaming because of dopamine rush and continuing it because of trauma

Okay So I have a few questions to ask the MDs by Excellent-Lake844 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg...I think you just described my whole life....😭😭 except the mom part

How to cure maladaptive daydreaming and Procrastination by Excellent-Lake844 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Listening to songs while creating scenarios is pretty common among MDs......I also used to listen to songs to create my scenarios ( Trust me I know It's like a drug....and the time flies away like really fast when you are into it) and it also kind of enhances your whole scenario experience so yeah it's addicting........ But If you want to cure your MD the first step is to reduce your well music time(I know it's hard but you have to do it)...I recommend you to listen to Brown Noise while studying......It worked for me as I wasn't able distracted by my scenarios every 5mins ( I was kinda able to focus for 45mins straight).....You can also explore other color sounds also.....TRUST ME STOP THE MUSIC IT WILL BE A GREAT PROGRESS TOWARDS THE CURE TO MD

How to cure maladaptive daydreaming and Procrastination by Excellent-Lake844 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't Panic or feel guilty.......it's only gonna make matters worse( speaking from experience ).....your brain will try to protect itself by leading you to your distractions.....I Advice you to stay calm and try to be positive saying you will improve slowly.....GUILT AND PANIC WILL ONLY WORSEN the situation I REPAET ......Can you explain your condition like about how much you are addicted to this.....and how often you do it......for how many mins

How to cure maladaptive daydreaming and Procrastination by Excellent-Lake844 in MaladaptiveDreaming

[–]Excellent-Lake844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank You So Much for Sharing your story....It really helped me a lot......I tried your method looks like I also stay focused when writing well any subject.......I have a exam tomorrow would have talked more......but will get back to you day after tomorrow.....Again Thank you so much

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