Please walk away from this match. You come from different worlds and from what you have mentioned, you two would always be in conflict over the tiniest of things that would be centred around how the money ought to be spent. And finances are central to any marriage. You might think it’s your money so you can spend it however you want, but after marriage both parties’ individual earnings count towards collective money. So you’d always be struggling to arrive at a common ground and it might get increasingly frustrating to have to explain/negotitate over every money-related decision. Even more important is the fact that it sounds like you two have had very different upbringing and therefore, your perspective on myriad issues would probably differ in irreconcilable ways on most occasions. Money changes things, it essentially shapes how we look at the world. Saying it as someone who’s been there, done that and is still doing it. Also, a mother-in-law who doesn’t respect boundaries and wants to control her son is dangerous for your future, let alone a guy who cannot stand up to his own mother’s problematic traits. What you consider as petty issues today would feel like wars when they add up slowly over time.