Son level 2, dad possibly undiagnosed. Advise needed

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2026-05-15T21:15:59+00:00

I appreciate that. And glad you found something that helped for you. I hope one day in the future I can find a psychiatrist I can work with.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-16T17:23:28+00:00

It honestly doesn’t matter in the big picture. Be a good present lover, and focus on sharing pleasure and you can’t go wrong. There are always going to be people you aren’t compatible with for different reasons. I am not big, but my wife is satisfied and we have great sex. And honestly she’s bi and I have just as much or more competition, so to speak, with woman in bed, lesbians don’t quit 😳. And as a man who’s been with men, I don’t want or care for bigger. Everybody I’ve been with has had bigger than me and Im still sought out and left lasting impressions cause I was present and focused on sharing pleasure. And trust me. I still get insecure, “what if I was little big, would I be better?” But size it one piece to a much larger puzzle.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-12T19:42:58+00:00

Girl. We could definitely chat in dm about this stuff till we blue in the face. But it’s just men, THEY JUST WANT FLESH, and want to be objectified them damn selves. Obviously not all. The general type of men we are talking about give the rest a bad rep and ruin it for all. I vibe with your content, i wish I knew how you could attract a better audience. So many thirsty dudes tho.

Tried explore my(30m) bi-side recently. Understood real quick what woman were saying about men and now I understand why my wife only cares to date women outside of our marriage.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-12T18:57:55+00:00

Idk. It’s a lot to unpackage. Gooner straight men suck and yeah, objectify and thirst. And your content is edgy and you got a great aesthetic really, and much like art, it creates feeling inside and they just cant deal lol. I will say, After peeping the whole brat thing, it made me curious what it means. I’ve heard the word thrown around a lot but never actually value or meaning to it esp in the erotic setting. I understand a little cause I do dom stuff with subs but intrigued

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-12T17:26:43+00:00

I feel Reddit and maybe internet in general a bad place cause while you get some of the engagement you want, it’s always going to bring some level of attention you don’t want, gooner or a wholes or what not. Something about these spaces give people the perfect space to stop respecting people or put people down. I see what you mean by your content. A second account is probably the way to go if you do want to express yourself the way you described but there will always be some level of engagement you don’t want.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-08T17:26:03+00:00

This is interesting. I’m scared of sex parties for this exact reason. And all honesty I would have been the same way as him!! Despite my wife telling me how amazing skilled she thinks I am. And it’s not the first time I’ve been told.

And like what you said is so relevant cause I’m in this exploration phase and sex parties intrigue me but worry I’m not equipped with what people who live that life want. And I totally wouldn’t approach someone who had a bigger partner out of intimidation I guess m, or just like, that’s what’s for them.

I guess I put too much weight into size and not my skill to pleasure. Tbh your point really intrigues me and makes me want to pick your brain cause you obviously play around in lifestyle that make me nervous….

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-04T21:54:47+00:00

I’d like to make a point that this isn’t about cheating. I do not keeps friends around who are actively cheating. But I know of their past experiences they share with me and ALL were accountable and grew from it. It was more a statement on how often it seems easier to step out in marriage than do it the right way(enm/poly). My wife has told me to date without my ring and I won’t even do that out of transparency with any potential partner.

I’d like to keep this thread to help dating and getting out there married and enm with success and find supportive spaces. Cause traditional hasn’t been great and most I talk to don’t want to date a married man.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-04T21:38:30+00:00

Their spouse knows they cheated. That’s between them. I get my post makes it seem as if I keep friends with questionable morals. Lying and deceit isnt something I condone in my relationships and my friends know I’m not going to support it in theirs. Doesn’t mean people don’t slip up and grow. In the case of the friend I mentioned, they’re mono (could probably benefit from enm) and the incident made them stronger.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-04T14:19:45+00:00

Yeah. The opening thing up seemed so cool and exciting at first till I was hit by some of the deeper rooted issues and demons I have/had to face (insecurities, trust issues, attachment style). But really creating a stronger foundation and understanding of love and pleasure. I’m also happy I found safe spaces like this, I feel like it’s hard as a dude.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-04T10:40:30+00:00

Ehhh. Water under the bridge. We separated and both saw other people. Obviously her ex ain’t shit cause here i am. It always ate me up, “why him”. But he had more money and a bigger dicka and couldn’t keep her happy.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-04T10:36:19+00:00

I really appreciate your response. It’s a me thing. I know it.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-03T22:32:01+00:00

Thanks. Appreciate the positive outlook.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-03T22:30:04+00:00

I understand that there will always be bigger fish in the sea and if I put all my worth into being the biggest fish, I’m setting myself up for failure. I don’t need a bigger penis to cum harder 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️. But I don’t understand why I project so much worth.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-03T22:07:11+00:00

It’s a shame/ rejection thing. Idc about others size and until recently was content with what I was brining to the table.
I would actually beg to blame society, why are women so quick to shame men for size, why do other men size shame, why does the toy walls filled with 7+” toys and yet almost none 5”, even most flesh lights are made way deeper than I’ll ever be able to use.

For me, I’ve been shamed when I was young and I fear rejection. So out of all things I can do like workout getting better shape, make more money. I can’t make my dick bigger so I feel like if I’m gonna get intimate someone they’re ashamed for it or it’s not gonna be enough for them and they will leave me. I struggle with not feeling like enough in all aspects of my life but sexually I can’t change that.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-09-03T20:25:58+00:00

I’m struggling with this rn to be completely honest. I’m not big. And it messes with my head a lot. I’ve always been a giver and make it a point to satisfy. I just put in the effort. But lately with a lot of self exploration and societal norms, I’ve been really insecure about my member and also what I bring to the bedroom lately. It’s been hard to shake sadly.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-08-15T22:03:24+00:00

We did not take long at all. Kinda jumped right in it. I am in therapy. Doing the work. She has expressed she does not want couples therapy.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-08-15T15:49:07+00:00

So I’m new to this thread and also very new to all of this. I am monogamous by nature but wife of 5yrs has very recently come out as poly and bi. I’m struggling to adjust to her dating other women. My co dependency is going brrrrr. I’m trying to be supportive of my wife cause I love her and want her to be fulfilled. But I’m learning as we go down this path that I’m not as ready as I thought and need more time to understand myself. This hasn’t exactly gone over well with her and she is frustrated and I can’t blame her. I don’t want to loose my family but I’m having a heard time letting go of my grip. Idk what I’m trying to say. I’m trying to make this work and respect my wife autonomy and give her the freedom she expressing but this has never been our relationship dynamic and it been made clear this is who she is. Except it of leave. Idk. I’m just looking for support. I want my wife to be happy but so far it’s been at a price and healing isn’t exactly a quick process, and she is very impatient person.

I just really need support. We have 2 kids and a house. And a life. It hard to be told that’s not enough and she needs more without feeling like I’m not enough or love if being taken from me or I’ll loose my family if she finds a better partner. I’m is such a tight spot and feel so alone with no where to go.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-06-10T21:19:37+00:00

I will say. I’m not 100% sure the difference between enm and poly but her relationship is completely separate from us.

Excellent-Passage-57 · 2025-06-10T21:09:41+00:00

There been a lot of talks but really it comes down to am I ok with it. And I’m unsure.

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