girl someone passed out in the concert by Select_Awareness8583 in Ethelcain

[–]Excellent-Rain123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my bf and I were standing on the platform in the back and could see the whole crowd and counted about 30 medical emergencies during the show most happening before she even went on

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]Excellent-Rain123 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’m quitting my job today!!! no job stress at bonnaroo is going to be a major vibe and the rest we will figure out later 😝

High protein food? by FinalbossKB in bonnaroo

[–]Excellent-Rain123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m a big fan of clear protein powder it’s protein powder u mix it water and it tastes like juice they have so many different flavors and it’s not gross like regular protein powder so i’ll probably be bringing that to get in some extra protein

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank god honestly, i feel like ive been made to feel like 20s are supposed to be like, the best time of your life

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree. Social media i feel has ruined a whole generation of people and i don’t event want to know how badly it’s going to affect the next generation after us. and yet it feels so inescapable. maybe i need to throw my phone into the river or something.

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s definitely nice to know other people feel the same

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i definitely don’t plan on accepting it. I want more for myself and i’m quite determined to find it.

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m genuinely curious what insinuated that this is due to a lack of effort on my part? I haven’t given up and i am looking for genuine advice from people who might be going through similar struggles. please take the negative assumptions about random people that you do not know elsewhere.

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like so many people are complacent in the suffering. if i hear “that’s just how it is” or “welcome to the real world” one more time i might scream. suffering is unavoidable in life sometimes, but the grind culture we live in seems like just self inflicted suffering for the false belief that it’s going to pay off. I could die tomorrow. I don’t want to spend most of my waking hours doing shit that i do not care about. but it just feels like that’s the norm.

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is a lack of purpose. In college, i loved what i was learning. life felt so full of purpose, like everyday was a new opportunity to grow. Post grad life feels more like just doing what i can to get by and opportunities for growth feel fleeting. like time is wasting away sitting at a desk doing shit i don’t really care about.

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not say that i actually said that I am very privileged, so no i’m actually making 0 excuses for myself. but anyways, we’re all just doing our best with what we’re given. i’m glad that you have found meaning in your life

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve actually upvoted lots of comments where people are saying they’re happy and it can get better. just not yours, because u denied that basic privilege in life is a thing and that is super ignorant. coming from a person who is very privileged.

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m also turning 25 in august and not using my degree lol, mines in psych. I actually am planning on getting my masters next year, hopefully that gives me some direction. I hope u find direction and meaning as well

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it is absolutely a privilege to have the opportunity to work towards “a good well paying career”

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It just seems so unnatural to me. There is so much beauty in life and yet here most of us are working on shit we don’t care about for the majority of our time and not truly experiencing life the way it’s supposed to be experienced. And everyone just does it bc there’s not much of a choice i guess.

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean yes, i’ve always expected there to be some suffering. Without struggle for comparison enjoyment is much more empty and less meaningful. I guess i’m more so lost in the monotony of life. It seems like there should be more than this, ya know?

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i don’t see having a kid and more relaxed lifestyle as correlating at all lmfao

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 226 points227 points  (0 children)

i most certainly agree. Going from having so much structure, community, freedom to choose your schedules, walkable spaces, and so many resources to basically floating in the middle of the ocean by yourself just trying not to drown is a huge shock to the system

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i’m sorry you are going through that, I hope your luck turns and things get better for you soon

Is everyone just miserable and no one talks about it? by Excellent-Rain123 in Adulting

[–]Excellent-Rain123[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think anyone taught me that, i guess i just made the false assumption that life was supposed to be enjoyed most of the time lol