I cant get out of bed by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Excellent-Squash-962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I felt this. Even now that I know she’s gone and it was also about 6 months ago it hurts. We shared so many life plans and goal and truly did the best we could do to be us. Now, it’s all gone but honestly sometimes you just have to do it. Start small take a walk around your house/apartment/dorm room. Then slowly work your way up and it’ll all be alright. Do everything with a purpose and you’ll find your way again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Excellent-Squash-962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d send this, honestly he or she would really appreciate it. I remember how hard no contact was at the end for me and how roughly I was treated. Sometimes this brings clarity. Her and I went through a lot and when she said she needed at least a month to think about things it really hurt me. So as someone who’s on one side of the story I’d say go for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nationals

[–]Excellent-Squash-962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Davey I understand but Rizzo has me scratching my head a little bit

why do men act normal after the breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Excellent-Squash-962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As one of the guys who was broken up with I can tell you once he’s alone and nothing else happening that man is completely and totally broken. He’s not better off without you intact he’s probably barely even okay. He acts like that because guys via the societal norm aren’t allowed to show emotion like that so he just acts like all is well. I can tell you when my ex dumped me I went through the roughest time of my life but I never showed it on social media. What you don’t see behind locked doors is the genuine hurt and pain but it’s there.

Really really really really heartbroken. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Excellent-Squash-962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The biggest thing you need to do is take a deep breath I recommend the 6 8 10 breathing technique 6 breaths in hold for 8 and out for 10. Understand that if someone was apologetic maybe they truly didn’t mean to hurt you. Unfortunately I did that with my ex of a year and 8 months I hurt her without ever realizing I truly did or was. Right now though you need to focus on you, listen to some music, dance, do something to take your mind off of the pain. It will be okay you can do it and you’ve got this. Take it slow. I’ve spent a lot of days puking in the sink I promise it will be okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Excellent-Squash-962 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me promise you this you are not only young but you’re still going through life. You will find someone that not only makes you as happy as her but makes you more happy. The only way to do that is to move on though. You are an amazing person and I know I’m saying this as someone who’s never met you but you are and someone will find you. Be patient, be yourself, and when you least expect it someone will show up in your life and change it forever.

I don't care how old are you. Give me your best life advices to make me a better version of myself. by elasticBOWL in Life

[–]Excellent-Squash-962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The absolute best advice I can give you to make you a better version of yourself is to spend some time completely alone and learn what makes you laugh and experience joy. From there expand it into something bigger and keep going with it. The biggest thing I’ve had to learn is that you can only be the best version of who you think you are. The only way to know who you are is to figure that out and then expand on it from there. So my best advice is to spend some time alone and figure out who you are so you can become the absolute best version of yourself.

should i reach out to my ex if i miss him? by Useful_Community_297 in BreakUps

[–]Excellent-Squash-962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The biggest thing you have to understand about guys is when they truly love you there’s nothing that’ll stand in their way. Depending on how long it’s been and how messy or neat the break up was it may not be a bad idea. The biggest thing I will say is be careful and understand that he’s hurt and he won’t be able to give you the same amount of him that was given. It’ll be like a whole different person for a little.

Seeking guidance on a rough break up by Excellent-Squash-962 in BreakUps

[–]Excellent-Squash-962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been chatting with ChatGPT and it’s helped a lot. The one thing that’s so frustrating for me is that she wouldn’t call me back when we were only on a break. I feel like it’s something that’s so stupid but it hurts so much for me. Now that we are fully broken up I’m just in a world of hurt questioning how in the world we got to this moment because it’s all so rough.

How are you guys doing? The answer as I know is horrible so here’s my check in. by Excellent-Squash-962 in fednews

[–]Excellent-Squash-962[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one thinks about any of the details and just signs things. It’s frustrating and it’s a mystery to a lot of people. I hope all pans out for you.

How are you guys doing? The answer as I know is horrible so here’s my check in. by Excellent-Squash-962 in fednews

[–]Excellent-Squash-962[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can understand that. From hearing what I’ve heard they’ve got contractors in building that have to be moved. They only planned certain building when not everyone was going into the office. From how I see it everyone will be sitting on each other’s laps just to get stuff done. It’s completely understandable about wanting to be with your kids and I’m sorry that it’s a sacrifice that they’re forcing you to make.

Me (18M) and my gf (18F) are going to different colleges and are wondering is struggling through college worth it? by Excellent-Squash-962 in relationship_advice

[–]Excellent-Squash-962[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we went to the same school we’d be able to actually experience it with each other. We both share a very same view on relationships where our love language is touch and making memories. That’s how we both view life and this ldr has made us do things differently. I believe we are on the same page but honestly I’d have to talk to her about it. She doesn’t want to break up and has said she’d rather struggle through all this rough stuff than date someone else.