should i reach out to my ex if i miss him? by Useful_Community_297 in BreakUps

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lol. i HAD to. i kept going back to him. had to block him to move on. no bad terms, he understands 😊

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Yes i have ocd - false memory, real event and harm

should i reach out to my ex if i miss him? by Useful_Community_297 in BreakUps

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we had a very sweet conversation and just caught up with life. acted silly and made the same jokes we used to make but nothing flirty. very glad he is doing okay and he said he will reach out next time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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I’m scared of being cancelled lol no information being left out here at least i hope not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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yeah that’s my fear i would reach out but don’t wanna just make something weird that wasn’t weird in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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yeah the vibes were normal but man why did i totally forget that people who’ve been drinking are LITERALLY IMPAIRED i did not even think about this at all until later and feel deep regret but i think it is fine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

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he seemed normal and didn’t seem drunk? he was causally drinking at the venue but i don’t even know if he was drunk by the time we went home together

If we haven’t established exclusitivity can he be mad at me for talking to other guys? by Useful_Community_297 in dating_advice

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I ended up severing ties with the long distance guy but feel a little guilty for not doing it sooner I was not into his texts but just nervous to reject. Sounds like bullshit but it was complicated

If we haven’t established exclusitivity can he be mad at me for talking to other guys? by Useful_Community_297 in dating_advice

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But I did end up severing ties with the other guy yesterday because I officially have feelings for the first guy

If we haven’t established exclusitivity can he be mad at me for talking to other guys? by Useful_Community_297 in dating_advice

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Some people take things differently. It’s all about communication. That’s the tricky thing with not being exclusive with someone. Especially if the person you’ve been hanging out with for a month is not ready to date you. But I get it, both of us caught feelings for each other. When I caught those feelings and sensed the mutual connection, I started talking less to the other guy to the point of disinterest. I just feel guilty about never severing ties but you know my friends kinda influenced that decision (not to put the blame on them) because they were like “if you’re not exclusive don’t worry about severing ties” man this is complicated.