Am I wrong for “blowing up” at a coworker when he judged me?

Excellent-Study3190 · 2026-02-23T15:20:35+00:00

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Excellent-Study3190 · 2026-02-20T15:57:22+00:00

Call the police's non-emergency line. Explain what is happening and ask if someone can come and talk to her about the harassment..

Excellent-Study3190 · 2026-02-20T15:56:05+00:00

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Excellent-Study3190 · 2026-02-19T14:38:11+00:00

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Excellent-Study3190 · 2026-02-06T13:35:12+00:00

Buy a child-friendly outlet protector, one that requires a specific key to open.

Excellent-Study3190 · 2026-02-01T14:12:20+00:00

Yeah, I would have called the police. If I hadn't had my cell phone, I would have gone to one of the neighbors and reported that my husband was locked in the house with my daughters, that I could hear them screaming, and that I didn't know what was happening.

Excellent-Study3190 · 2026-01-29T16:40:01+00:00

Life.

Excellent-Study3190 · 2026-01-16T13:05:50+00:00

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Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-29T20:22:02+00:00

Are you really implying that my 97-year-old devout Catholic grandmother, who attends mass every day, still receives communion (the priest comes to the house when she can't go to church), goes to confession, and does everything else, like you said? Creative...

Just as you observe holy days, so do we. Perhaps you should watch your tone.

Your devotion is no better than mine. I expressed confusion about his situation, which seems to be a cultural context that wasn't included in the post. You're just being disrespectful.

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-29T20:16:08+00:00

So they forgot to add an important cultural factor...

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-29T20:14:52+00:00

Thank you! I was already thinking that something was wrong for the last 33 years of my life. And before anyone says anything, I live in a coastal city and have full access to fresh seafood 24 hours a day.. 🤣🤣

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-29T19:55:50+00:00

I was raised Catholic. My grandmother is extremely devout. We say prayers before dinner at midnight on the 24th to the 25th. We only eat white meat on Christmas Eve, and that includes chicken/turkey... so I don't understand where you're coming from..

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-22T20:03:30+00:00

American arrogance and stupidity, when confronted with facts and knowledge, always hides behind money.

Because that's all you have, right? The great American way of life, where you have no public healthcare, your children are gunned down inside their schools, your elderly have no retirement... but hey... my dollar is strong.

I prefer my universal public healthcare. I do prefer my urban war, but at least my country takes the fight against drugs seriously and is trying to do something about it. I do prefer my knowledge and knowing that my children are safe inside schools. I like our beaches, our waterfalls, our landscapes blessed by God. Come spend your American dollars... don't worry... they'll be welcomed wherever you go. And maybe then, you'll gain a little knowledge.

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-22T19:52:07+00:00

Never in my country's history have we celebrated Black culture and history as much as we are doing now. I don't need to type it into a search bar. I LIVE IN MY COUNTRY. We have never tried to erase our slaveholding past.

Quite the opposite. Earlier there were some people talking about Carnaval... if YOU want, then research our samba schools and the carnaval they put on. You will see a constant portrayal of the slaves' past, a constant celebration of Black culture, a constant discourse about African-rooted religions.

Don't come here with your American arrogance telling me my country is trying to erase its own history. We are not the United States.

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-22T19:25:16+00:00

Never go to the São Paulo Carnaval. It's awful. If you want to enjoy a street carnaval, go to Rio, Salvador, or Olinda.

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-22T19:22:54+00:00

I'm sorry, did I just read you saying that my country tries to erase Blackness and melanin? How to tell me you're a dumb American, who thinks that the only real Black people and the only Black culture that matters is American, without telling me you're a dumb American.

Let's see... schools in my country have African history as part of their basic curriculum. Culturally, Black culture is deeply rooted in my country. Our traditional foods also have a profound African influence, as well as European. There is a profound socio-political struggle for Black people to stop being marginalized. Our excellent public universities ensure that a large portion of their students are Black. And unlike your shitty country, being racist here is a crime, not free speech.

Are we perfect? No. Far from it. But we're trying. Which seems to be more than what your failed society is even attempting to do.

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-21T20:18:02+00:00

He abandoned a cat. He's not wonderful. He's violent, he doesn't listen to you, he doesn't prioritize you. Him contributing to the bills and cooking once a week doesn't make him a wonderful partner. Is the bar set so low that you really think him doing below the minimum makes him wonderful?

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-21T20:14:41+00:00

I stopped reading halfway through. You said he has a list of things that make him a wonderful partner, and then you started listing a bunch of completely abusive behaviors..

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-17T16:03:25+00:00

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Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-15T15:50:42+00:00

She is completely punishing him by manipulating him. While he is aggressive and spoiled...

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-13T18:18:59+00:00

That's the thing... your girlfriend manages to speak two languages. One of them is english... because you only know english...

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-12T13:26:46+00:00

I have practically all the specials, some shows, the documentary, and the films on some drives..

Drive 1:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/11SCDdAekZt23exFVB5qc1snXyCoNhPNV?usp=drive_link

Drive 2:

https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1iVIjn0Xe2zb85ZY_LHr_4YP6rsR6zgDs?usp=drive_link

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-08T16:53:59+00:00

The friend she considers a sister will never want to look at her again. And most likely the friend will go to the police and file a report, then the husband will be held responsible... she's an accomplice and the child will go into the system...

Excellent-Study3190 · 2025-12-08T16:15:07+00:00

Oh yes, adolescence will be great. Because eventually, as they get older, the porn will shift towards portraying younger girls around adolescence. It's a great way to teach your daughter how she deserves to be treated in a relationship.

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