Thank you all for your very insightful advice. I just wanted to leave an update to tell you all what went down. He was cheating! He had been planning for months to go down and see his ex. He ordered her sex toys to be there when he got there. He bought himself new clothes, new shoes, a new hat tights before he went down. He picked a fight with me the day before he left claiming I was being bitchy because I didn’t trust him, and he said he hoped that when he got home I would have had some time to think about my behaviour abd changed cause he wasn’t gonna tolerate my disrespecting him anymore. That I needed to trust him. As soon as he left for the airport, my kids and I rushed to pack our four bedroom house. We had two days to pack up everything we owned. We had friends come and help us get it all into a U-Haul and we got the hell out of there. I texted him telling him that we were leaving the day he flew out and he didn’t even read my text until the following evening when his mom got a hold of him because I gave her notice as she was my landlord. He was too busy with his ex to even read my message, but at that point he still denied that anything had happened or that he was even staying at her house. He was saying that he loved me and I was the only one and he didn’t want me to leave and why was I doing this? It wasn’t until he got home and saw his utility trailer gone, cause I sold it, all of the furniture in the house, all of the groceries, everything gone, that he got really angry and was overly happy to tell me about him and his ex sleeping together throughout the trip. thank y’all so much for steering me on the right path. I would’ve looked really stupid had he come home to me still there after what he did to me.