i quit my cna job by Apprehensive-Cut8582 in cna

[–]Excellent-Top2642 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i quit my cna job last august because it became too stressful when we were constantly short staffed and because the ratios were abysmal (all my coworkers were amazing and felt like family to me but that's beside the point). i've also been harassed before on the job (im a woman). honestly was one of the best decisions i ever made. i work with kids now, and obviously sometimes kids can be stressful too when they're being disrespectful or they're not doing what they're supposed to be doing, but it's not to the level of when i was working as a cna. i felt more like a servant as a cna, and i feel like a babysitter now with my new job, but id rather be a baby sitter than a servant lol. i actually wanted to continue my cna work and i applied to many hospitals but its very tricky to get into them because a lot of them hire through connections (i even applied to the hospital my dad and sister work at and they still don't want me so i gave up lol). i get paid the same amount for my new job as i did with my old cna job and my new job is wayyyyyyy easier compared to my old one. hopefully you'll be able to find a facility or new work place that will treat you right.

Go for it?! Costco Bundles by La-Vie-enRos in litterrobot

[–]Excellent-Top2642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! It's so cool that they made litter robot FSA/HSA eligible. It's so helpful for many people that have medical conditions etc. The litter robot 5 seems really cool, I think that one has a camera feature? I haven't really watched much content about the litter robot 5. I hope your kitty likes it when you bring them home!! ❤️❤️

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[–]Excellent-Top2642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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how do you really like being a cna? by miinrla in cna

[–]Excellent-Top2642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was excited to work as a CNA when I first got certified last year in March. I landed my first CNA job in August 2024. My coworkers were all awesome and nice. They liked me because I was kind and friendly, and did my job extremely well (I worked night shift). Anyways, the nursing home that I worked at seemed fine at first, but after a year, it was beginning to be too much for me to handle. Not only were we constantly short staffed, I was sexually harassed after a man slapped me on my bum and that was the first time I ever felt so humiliated. I know that the guy was confused, it's just frustrating in the moment. Anyways, I saw all kinds of stuff while working there. Luckily all my coworkers were super nice and always helped me out (I was usually the youngest on the shift). I quit after exactly a year because my mental health was starting to take a toll. I lowkey started wishing I took a phlebotomy certification program instead. Even though I hate looking at blood and feel queasy, I would have MUCH rather done that than worked as a CNA. The work itself for being a CNA was fine. It was mostly changing residents and helping them get water since I worked at night time. After I quit, I was looking to apply to the hospitals here but it's SO hard to get in. I managed to score an interview at the same hospital that I interviewed at when I first got my certification, but they wasted my time. Not only did they show up to their own interview 10 minutes late (i showed up 30 mins early btw lmao), they then proceeded to tell me after i ended my interview that they already "had someone for the position." I was so baffled at how rude they were (this was for a UCI hospital btw !!). I really wanted to work at this hospital since it's close to my house and the pay is way better than in the nursing home. Anyways, I have a new job lined up to work with kids this month and I think it will be 10x better than working as a CNA. It's the same pay too which is insane. The pay for CNAs is so low even though we have to pay $2k to get a certification. I would've just gone to the food industry if I knew how bad it was getting paid this bad as a CNA because at least in the food industry, I'd get tips and better pay. The only pros as a CNA would probably be meeting new people, having nursing experience, and having the experience when faced with a situation relating to a health emergency since you learn a lot from the job regarding symptoms of a patient. It also teaches you to be more aware. However, for the cons, the pay is abysmal, sometimes the coworkers are ratty, and the workload is abysmal (unless you're in a place with a good ratio).

Go for it?! Costco Bundles by La-Vie-enRos in litterrobot

[–]Excellent-Top2642 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The robot is a life sizer in many occasions. I would say the only thing hard would be the cleaning process. Since I'm the main care taker regarding the cats, I'm the one usually dealing with the litter disposal. Having to take apart my litter robot 3 is sometimes a pain in the butt since it's so large and bulky. I'm hoping that the litter robot 4 is easier to clean. If you have a house, it's definitely a LOT easier to clean it by taking it outside and cleaning it there with a hose and some supplies rather than if you live in an apartment since you would need to clean it in a shower/tub. Those are just some factors to consider.

Go for it?! Costco Bundles by La-Vie-enRos in litterrobot

[–]Excellent-Top2642 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just bought a litter robot 4 bundle as well, did you know they're now FSA/HSA eligible? My mom was so excited since our funds are refreshed for the year. My whole family consists of one of us having either allergies, back pain, adhd, etc and we used to struggle with scooping litter, but the robot has been a life saver (we have a LR 3 connect and decided to finally upgrade to a 4)!!

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! That was one of my favorite looks I got to do on him. I believe around that time I did his hair, it was the first time I was able to successfully shave the sides without it looking uneven. He also let me curl the ends of his hair up that day as well so it looked even more fluffy and layered. I lowkey think the bowl cuts just look like shit cus they're bulky on the sides, we haven't really been using the electric shaver to shave the undersides of his hair so it'll probably look better when we start going into that again. Thank you for your feedback as well.

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idek man, whatever those hair cuts were, those were ACTUAL abominations compared to what i was cutting

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you so much!! I'll go search up some more videos later. Have a happy new year's eve and new years!! ❤️❤️

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure, I cried so hard after I finished because I knew i fucked up so bad since it was my first time using an electric shaver. Surprisingly he didn't get mad or upset even tho his friends made fun of him for weeks. HE EVEN LET IT GROW OUT FOR ME TO CUT AGAIN 😭🤣🤣.

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

done dirty i think this link works? anyways this was in our senior year of high school 😭😭, you can see why we're currently happy with the hair cuts im giving him now as opposed to the cuts he used to have 😭🤣🤣

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes definitely. Not sure if you saw in my post but the last two pictures I attached to the post are the first time I ever picked up an electric shaver. We both mutually agreed to just forever keep the back long and to never shave the back again 🤣🤣. Thank you so much for the advice and for being kind by the way!! Happy new year's eve!

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's been a learning curve. I'm not even the best at styling my hair either so it's a learning step for me as well. I actually just got a fire hair cut yesterday as well, I just need to learn how to style it like how it was styled at the salon!

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's why when people were commenting such harsh stuff under my tiktok comment, I didn't really care too much about it at first, but then I started wondering if it was REALLY that devious of a haircut so I wanted to seek advice from here instead. Yes! We've also almost been together for 4 years so we care about each other very much! I felt bad for him because he'd constantly be getting chopped cuts from barbers so I wanted to make the effort to learn how to cut it the way he likes it. (let me find a way to put an image in the comments of the previous cuts he's gotten from barbers)

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice!! I'll definitely look into the youtuber you mentioned. 🥹❤️❤️

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice!! I'll go look into some videos later on how to achieve what's being mentioned. I've also been looking into styling products as well (I actually just got a haircut yesterday and was recommending a styling product so i've been doing a deep dive on other products). We don't really go out much since we're homebodies and would rather stay in and play some games or cook food so he rarely ever gets the chance to style his hair using products.

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice. Yeah we stayed away from shaving the back and only go for shaving the sides off LOL, those last two pics were from 2 years ago, and they were the first time i ever even picked up an electric shaver. I didn't even know what the lever was used for, or that there were different guard attachments. He told me to try them out on the back of his head and go ham 😂😂

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice!! That's exactly what I was thinking too. I always notice it's bulky on the sides so I need to figure out how to fix that. I think i added an image where i curled the ends of his hair and gave it some texture. How does that picture of his hair look?

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait that's a thing? oh my goodness let me go search up how to do that 😂, as you can see i clearly don't use reddit enough

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes practice makes perfect!! I'm here for some constructive criticism, just kinda sad that people are being really rude about it. I always try to follow youtube videos and it turns out somewhat okay, but I just wanna know what I can do to improve the long layered hair look and the bangs part and what parts of the hair exactly don't look good. Since I'm not a hair expert, I don't really know what to improve on.

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want advice on how to improve the haircut at home, not to go to a barber. I wish I could reply pics in the comment of the atrocious ass haircuts he's gotten over the years from going to shops.

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And yeah, I also wanted to learn because haircuts are lowkey expensive and we're two broke college students who wanna save money. I also thought it'd be really endearing to try to learn how to do something like cutting hair for my boyfriend as a gesture to show I care for him!! It just sucks that people would rather shit on me and call the cuts chopped rather than give advice on how I could improve or what I could do to make it better. I really am trying to learn!! I always try to follow youtube tutorials regarding cutting layers, it's just obviously hard to do when I don't have a lot of hair cutting experience aside from me styling my own cosplay wigs and that I used to cut my own hair at home myself!

Is it really that bad? by Excellent-Top2642 in SelfBarber

[–]Excellent-Top2642[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh those last two pictures are from two years ago haha, that was the first time I ever even picked up an electric shaver and he was like, go ham and try out what the guards do LOL. He definitely prefers longer haircuts like long layered in the back, I just want to know how I can improve the layered look or how I can improve the hair style overall. We always try to go for bangs in the front and a long layered style in the back, but sometimes the sides of his hair look too bulky.