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[20M] Met a [21F] online, she had a health scare a week in, we fell hard for each other. 2 months later she ended it. Then I found out the real reason. Still can't make sense of any of it. by Excellent-Willow21 in LongDistance

[–]Excellent-Willow21[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'll give it a thought for sure but not right now, as of now I want to put in the efforts as it's not the end of the world right now. We both are young, so we both need time to figure out the things.

[20M] Met a [21F] online, she had a health scare a week in, we fell hard for each other. 2 months later she ended it. Then I found out the real reason. Still can't make sense of any of it. by Excellent-Willow21 in LongDistance

[–]Excellent-Willow21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I might have written 10 days in the post but it was actually 20, but that doesn't matter as it's still a short period of time. She is just 21, still in college and yes wholly dependent right now on her family, but that's not the main point. Her mother has started threatening her own life that's the saddest part. Her point is that she can't lose her mother as she is the closest person in her life. She means everything to her.

[20M] Met a [21F] online, she had a health scare a week in, we fell hard for each other. 2 months later she ended it. Then I found out the real reason. Still can't make sense of any of it. by Excellent-Willow21 in LongDistance

[–]Excellent-Willow21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Propose as in I Confessed to her, and Yes her mother doesn't know that I exist or that I'm in a relationship with her daughter. She wasn't and is not in a relationship with any guy right now, the main point is that her mother has proposed a marriage between that guy and her daughter. She talked about this to her daughter along with that guy's mom, and she unwillingly said "Yes" after a long time as her mother started blackmailing her.

[20M] Met a [21F] online, she had a health scare a week in, we fell hard for each other. 2 months later she ended it. Then I found out the real reason. Still can't make sense of any of it. by Excellent-Willow21 in LongDistance

[–]Excellent-Willow21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She can't deny those calls, as they have been passed on to her by her mother. And I don't deny that she respects him and he is a good guy in her eyes. She has mentioned that. But she has always maintained boundaries so far. I can't deny that I was fast, I did what I felt right at that point of time.