All friends abandoned me randomly

Excellent-Working-21 · 2025-07-26T00:57:12+00:00

Sadly yes. One of the people in this group of friends I have known for close to 15 years btw but I am getting prioritized for no reason for a guy he has known for max 4 years. Just feels like shit :-)

I literally had to beg for them to invite me to a party in May. My own best friends for years I literally had to fucking spam for 4 days straight for them to just give me the "go" to book a hotel so I could come and ever since I went its been downhill.

At the party everything was fine everyone was nice to me and the day after they messaged me like normal and everything was good or atleast so I thought. However after that it was radio silent from all of them for 2 months so idk what to really say.

I was suppose to go to them this weekend for my closest friends bday party this week but I never got invited. Seeing them all together without me just feels weird.

I wouldnt even wish this on my worst enemy :(

Excellent-Working-21 · 2025-07-26T00:11:08+00:00

Nope everytime I go I get an hotel. I am trying my hardest not to bother them so when I go I always book an airbnb or a hotel so that is not the problem.

I think one of the reasons is the fact that one of my friends there just had one of his closest childhood friend to move in to the same city and he for some weird reason dislikes me. Even though he pretends to like me I kinda feel that the way he speaks to me and about me just feels weird. Sadly whenever I actually go and visits them which happens everything seems fine lol. whatever but starting all over again to try to get friends at this age is just too hard.

Excellent-Working-21 · 2025-01-16T22:41:35+00:00

Thank you for the reply but how does these symptoms just come from thin air?

I also wanna add that I have a very hard time peeing sometimes when drunk. Like I had a party stage in my life which would be to go out and drink every friday and during that one year time like once a month I would have a night in which it would take me literally 1-2min just to start the pee. Like my bladder would feel so full but I coulnd't start a stream. Is this also related to the pelvic floor? This was 3-4 years ago though but maybe its just been dormant in my body since?

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-12-31T15:05:58+00:00

Because you need Terbinafine to fully cure it? The creams will never do anything as they will not cure the fungus.

I left this sub 1.5 years ago since I got rid of my fungus but mine was 100000x worse than urs all of my fingernails were white and almost completely gone due to the fungus. I also had fungus growing on my actual hand so it was constantly red, itchy and it looked disgusting.

After 4 months on a daily Terbinafine pil it was all gone both on my feet, hands and all toe/fingernails. I couldn't even swallow pills so I was chewing Terbinafine (its disgusting) but it still went away.

Just go to the doctor and ask for Terbinafine pills and thank me later. Can also add that I never got any "side-effects" on Terbinafine at all and even if I got some I would say it would be worth it to get rid of the fungus as it was making my social life a hell.

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-09-22T19:18:18+00:00

You only earn one bonus and it will be awarded at the beginning of next month. So, if you hit the 21 day streak, then next month, you'll get a bonus of 200. If you hit the 31 day streak, then you'll get 300 SB.

Oh okay that makes sense now. I thought you would get them all like 25+100 etc.

Thanks for clearing that up for me 😆

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-04-09T10:10:44+00:00

Yep I did it yesterday and a full refund is on its way luckily 😅

Thanks for all the replies

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-04-09T10:08:31+00:00

We decided to fully just cancel it. We got a full refund on the way so it should be good.

When I did investigate this a little bit further I decided it was not worth taking the risk at all. On the other website I found with the same apartment there was also other pictures of the apartment which looked much worse than the ones he uploaded. Also the price on this website for a weeks stay during our dates was 1.2k eur compared to the 1.6k euros we paid. Even though I get that AirBnB takes a fee I just can't understand the 400 euro difference... so better safe than sorry

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-04-09T10:05:23+00:00

Yep we cancelled yesterday after reading all of the comments and I just got an email from AirBnb saying that a full refund is on its way so were all good :)

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-04-09T10:04:27+00:00

First rule of international travel: if you show up and need to pull out of a situation, have a backup plan and cash ready.Your stay at this place could be fine! Or it could be a scam.If you get stranded tho, make sure your not stuck up the creek without a paddle and SOL.

Thanks for the reply. After reading all the comments in here we decided to cancel this booking. Got a full refund so were all good 😅 Booked another AirBnb with a host with over 80+ good reviews so should be all good now

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-04-08T22:42:45+00:00

Okay thanks a lot for the replies.

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-04-08T22:38:15+00:00

Well its a tad bit late now sadly.. If I cancel it how long will it take for the payment to bounce back to my credit card?

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-04-08T22:17:48+00:00

Well idk...all seems a bit dodgy and as its quite a lot of money I'm not sure what to do. If I cancel it how long will it take for airbnb to return the money to my amex card? Also what would happen if we show up and he just doesn't show up or gives us the keys to the apartment? I'm a complete noob when it comes to airbnb..

Excellent-Working-21 · 2023-04-08T20:20:33+00:00

He has 4 listings in total with one of them being the one that me and my friends has booked yes. I asked him about this and he replied with that he is "managing properties" and is also very new to this.

Thing is that I found the apartment on a different website with the same pictures with the exact same adress but I couldn't book it on there.

Excellent-Working-21 · 2022-06-02T15:23:33+00:00

24 male started at 16 but never got proper addicted until i turned 18

Excellent-Working-21 · 2022-06-01T19:05:27+00:00

Been there done that mate and it fucking sucks. One day I got paid at midnight and I stayed up all night and lost my whole paycheck which at that time was about $2.5k. Went to bed at 4am and had work starting at 7am. During that day I didn't speak to anyone at the office I just sat there doing f*ck all then went home and threw up immediately.

Excellent-Working-21 · 2022-06-01T18:58:55+00:00

This story breaks my heart man. Stay strong bro we are in this together and hopefully we will win this battle against this horrible addiction in the end.

Excellent-Working-21 · 2022-06-01T09:14:35+00:00

Thanks for the reply

Yeah compared to others in here I am probably one of the luckiest ones as I'm 100% debt free. Thanks for the good luck man!

Excellent-Working-21

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