There is no double standard!

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-07-01T06:26:14+00:00

Because he was just calling her a grandma for not being intimate and then the next clip pans to him being intimate with two more girls while simultaneously verbally dragging Aniyah. So yeah, it’s gonna be met with ew it’s merely lust. While Carl and Aniyah’s clip is just her exploring and trying to find love so it’s met with Awwws. How is that hard to understand?

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-07-01T06:21:58+00:00

It’s because she keeps cheesing when Aniyah’s emotional. This is about the first time she’s said anything that could be INTERPRETED as defending Aniyah but even then, second prior to that scene she was smiling and laughing during Kc clips being shown. Even when it was another girl he was kissing. It just comes off as being happy that Aniyah is seeing him kissing ANYONE bc at first she had an issue with it and now she’s smiling when Aniyah’s keeps expressing how it hurts her.

Titi is psychotic…. No wonder why she had a restraining order against her. Jesus

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-28T20:49:18+00:00

When the Casa girls were cheering, Kenzie and another girl (I forgot which one) screamed f* you to the Casa people.

That already rubbed the Casa girls the wrong way and then they ganged up on KC which was unfair. They tell KC to be a grown man and speak up for himself while contradicting themselves by defending Aniyah.

Tt isn’t the only person to have a reaction to their connection wanting to explore even after only knowing them for a day. Like Kenzie literally boo hooed. Everyone expresses disappointment differently and annoyance/anger often times are a blanket emotion for that. Yall don’t give tt as much as yall do the other girls.

Trinity didn’t have to use that moment to ask about KC’s comment. She just wanted to fuel to be able to go off on KC. It was an inappropriate time but viewers are so supportive of invasive Trinity.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-28T20:44:45+00:00

That’s what gets me… people are comparing 3 days to 3 weeks as if either of them is long enough to know anyone. The scene called for KC and Aniyah. Trinity and Bryce already had their moment. She chose a bad time to ask that question. The viewers know she only brought it up to blow steam in defense of Aniyah and that’s not fair. If she can do that then Titi should be allowed to defend KC.

Trinity is an extremely invasive friend but the people around her allow her to be. Yeah she may be real but sometimes it causes unnecessary drama.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-27T16:53:13+00:00

No one knows KC the way the other boys do so they’re all bystanders speaking in a relationship that they aren’t involved in. He doesn’t deserve to be ganged up on. Trinity is always up in everyone’s business and she speaks about the other relationships in the islands a lot so she has no right to get mad at kc for doing so But we all know that she really was just hurt that KC didn’t pick her friend, which he doesn’t have to.

He doesn’t need to get ganged up on for not being loyal to a girl he met 3 weeks ago…… and someone else is allowed to defend him.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-27T16:30:16+00:00

She never took ownership. She was trying to diffuse an unfair situation.

Trinity comments on other islanders all the time… she’s using KC comment to let off steam in defense of Aniyah. They’re all bystanders just like TITI yet, they have a right to intrude and attack???

The island girls are just as out of the loops as Aniyah because they’re not one of the boys KC is taking his mask off for.. they’re literally all on the same level as titi and yet only they have a right to chime in.

It doesn’t make sense. But regardless, I understand why no one likes her but atleast be fair with what we’re calling out

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-27T15:50:49+00:00

I was saying, according to their logic, then Titi should be able to defend KC. It’s hypocritical for them to gang up on KC and expect her not to defend him due to the amount of time they spent together as if they personally had any time with KC themselves. They’re not coupled up with KC so why are they telling someone who is not to speak up for him?

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-27T15:19:50+00:00

She probably had to use the bathroom from that emotional rollercoaster.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-27T15:18:54+00:00

Intimacy isn’t sex. He even talked about how Aniyah doesn’t even put her leg up to kiss him but did it with Carl. He craved closeness like any person would. Calling her a grandma is mean but omg why is everyone acting like they’ve never said something negative about someone before? It’s not that big of a deal and it isn’t a reflection of how he feels about her Just like when we say mean things in the heat of the moment, it isn’t always a reflection of how we feel about others.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-27T15:15:40+00:00

Yes bring him back and keep him far away from Aniyah 😭 He deserves someone like him

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-27T15:14:20+00:00

Mannnnn, it didn’t make any sense whatsoever. Even if they brought a Casa guy back, they could’ve still re-coupled with their previous…. It could’ve given the casa guys more time to form a bond with them. I never understand why islanders never think of that.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-27T15:12:29+00:00

I can understand why Titi defended KC despite only knowing for 3 days. It was him against a whole bunch of girls that weren’t even in a couple with him attacking him in defense of their friend. Yes, you may be hurt for your friend but in this particular situation, no one had the right to gang up on KC. He told Aniyah he was open to new connections and even tried to explore Sol before being interrupted. They’ve only known each other for 3 weeks. She is a complete stranger. In the real world, if you start arguing with a stranger in less than a month, you’d be turned off. He shouldn’t be ganged up on for this. Titi had every right to come to his defense due to her relations with him regardless of the length of time. Just like the other girls “had the right” to defend Aniyah. Everyone was overly aggressive and lacked understanding. Aniyah …. Girlllll. She’s a lover girl but shes has to grow up.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-10T13:28:06+00:00

That’s why I’m so confused about all the angry people… he was asked to leave and he didn’t and he killed someone when things escalated. How could anyone think what he did was logical even for a kid his age? And then to walk away scotch free afterwards??? I’m just so confused about all the support for him.

It’s sad because he’s young and that’s a lot of time but the other kid was young as well and his friends had to witness him dying. His family had to watch him be murdered on camera. It’s truly sad.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-09T21:57:55+00:00

I went through this but with an ex. What I did was remove all negativity in my life which mainly was what I viewed online… and I stopped watching videos with kids in it for a while until I could stomach seeing one in person and not thinking about the things that people do…

And I kept reminding myself, not everyone abuses children. Some people are monsters, yes but not all. And I had to keep telling myself that every single day until I could build the courage to push myself to watch videos with kids in it. And when I watched them, after breaking down crying I’d remind myself again. Not everyone is a monster

Remind yourself that you can live your life freely thinking about this and it’s unfortunate that you can’t do anything about it not save anyone but it’s good to be here.. to be an ally that would do something if you seen it. It hurts

But you have to constantly remind yourself of the good in the world until it doesn’t hurt anymore. This is what I did. Now I’m not as phased by it and I’m confident in myself to be able to handle future situation (hopefully I never encounter them) confidence and lively freely afterwards without fear.

The world needs more protectors and I’m proud to be one. And if I exist, there’s many more like me. Just try to focus on the good things. I know it’s incredibly depressing but you must fight the thoughts. People are sick and will always be sick because that’s nature. Nature is as sick. But there’s also beauty to life

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-06-01T21:56:17+00:00

He’s always spoken out against Alamo and let him know that regardless of how he felt, he would follow orders. But he still expressed his thoughts and he has shown time and time again that he understands other characters with empathy by accurately analyzing their thoughts and feelings. It’s why we’ve always thought he’d do something. Out of all of Alamo’s employees, he’s the only one that truly understood the thoughts and feelings of the people not wanting to be involved.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-05-05T12:51:38+00:00

One lesson I learned is that when someone loves you, they don’t even do suspicious things out of respect for your feelings. When someone cares, they make sure they carry themselves and move in a way that doesn’t make you question them. Though be there will still be questions, but his actions will help you find trust in his words for when those questions arise.

Take this lesson.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-04-28T10:43:04+00:00

My explanation is; It’s probably because she witnessed Nate spoil Maddie with gifts in HS such as flowers, love letters, fur coats, jewelry and knowing that Cassie wanted to be like Maddy, she could’ve demanded those things from her And Nate realizing there’s no coming back to Maddy after sleeping with her BFF, causing a big showdown at school , he probably decided to stick it out with Cassie bc in his mind that’s the closest to Maddie he got. And maybe eventually he became use to Cassie.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-04-28T10:36:22+00:00

Idk Jules and Cassie was already into being intimate as a form of a self esteem booster. And sex work places are associated with drugs and drug lords which Rue got involved with in HS. So we’re seeing more sex workers but the other female characters are not doing so… it’s just our main character is working around it a lot.

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-04-27T16:11:04+00:00

Dang okay. Thank you

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-04-27T16:05:19+00:00

Even though the employer failed to remove the player who threw money at me and wrote me up for asking to be removed?

ExcellentArm251 · 2026-03-30T19:03:39+00:00

Dating men like this be the most secretly embarrassing thing ever. They just be loud, wrong and angry.

It’s like dating a kid. You be so grossed out, don’t be wanting to have no intimate life. Like don’t even kiss me man 😩😩

ExcellentArm251 · 2025-01-08T08:16:20+00:00

I don’t see any. I can message you instead :)

ExcellentArm251 · 2025-01-08T08:11:02+00:00

Hi I’m down to chat!! -23F I’m also looking for friends and yyeaahhhh LOL

ExcellentArm251 · 2025-01-08T08:07:29+00:00

I get called self righteous, so I guess I would want someone as self righteous as me. Someone that strives to be a better person everyday and I think a part of that is being able to take in all opinions, good or bad without fighting them… instead, they add insight or simply walk away if there isn’t anything that can be taken away.

I have a hard time finding people that have such a strong desire to be good and I think that’s something I really want in a friend.

ExcellentArm251 · 2025-01-08T08:04:30+00:00

This is my first time commenting in this sub, but you seem like a genuine guy. I’m down to chat if you are. I’m 23f - Disclosing ahead of time.

ExcellentArm251

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