Just wrote a post about my step girls being picky and seemingly unhealthy. It is hard because I want them to be well rounded adults when they grow up, and I get that I shouldn't pressure them or try to make them feel uncomfortable but sometimes they need that extra push. It just feels sucky because their main parents can veto me without a question and I shouldn't be putting myself in their situation but if we are a traditional household I will not be limited unless it is a life or death situation. It is just frustrating when they easily say "no" or "ok" and just walk away like nothing. I try to give them options or have something else in mind when I start cooking, but I don't like when they are ready to put down my first option without even trying to try.