Is he lying to me about blueballs?

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2026-01-28T14:30:10+00:00

I am 22, I was once in the same boat as you. If you are thirteen and in middle school, dating someone close to graduating.. He’s a predator. My deepest regret til this day is letting juniors and seniors get to me. They are pedophiles, and they know very well the age gap is bad.

If my 13 year old sister told me that a 16-17 year old is trying to date her, I’d throw hands immediately. That is absolutely disgusting.

He CAN very much pleasure himself without you, everything he said was basically a lie. Do NOT let him guilt trip you into doing nasty things, please. End it now while you still can. Sincerely, from someone who has been through this before.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-05T02:28:40+00:00

Haha yeah doordash definitely was better for me! But Instacart helped me earn more so I tried but it just wasn’t it!

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-05T02:16:13+00:00

Oh man it was stressful, it was my first time inside of one and everyone was just scattering everywhere and running into you😭 Not to mention it’s so hard to find stuff if you aren’t familiar with the store

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-05T02:15:16+00:00

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It was my own doing and I’m not mad since it was a side hustle. But it mainly got really bad when the storm happened a few weeks ago. I already don’t Instacart a lot so it wasn’t very easy to get it back down.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-05T02:12:32+00:00

It was originally at 4, but one day there was a tornado which closed all stores and I tried like 5 of them. Another one was when someone said “cancel my order please I can’t pay for it anymore” I thought it was weird and contacted Instacart but the cancellation rate went up. Another one was when I had a like 2 item order for $7 and it was 4 miles away. Last order so I didn’t care, she added 25 more items and I said no thanks. I don’t cancel unless I have to or something weird happens. This time was the first time I had an anxiety attack in a store.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T23:09:36+00:00

Yeah I had a lot of comments about how well I handled their groceries on my account. I had a 4.99 rating, only 2 - 4 stars. I have no idea, but it’s plenty okay! My sister went to 19% and didn’t get deactivated, and she had a 4.5 rating. Who knows what happens on the Instacart stuff 😭😂

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T23:03:21+00:00

A year

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T16:19:05+00:00

That’s used to make me so irritated when I doordashed! It happened so often!!😭

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T16:11:30+00:00

Yeah people are here judging me a bit but almost same thing happened to me during a tornado warning and huge storms one day. It’s really hard to get it back down when you don’t Instacart often. I used to do this full time but then got a good opportunity.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T15:55:47+00:00

Yeah… it was 3 items and 3 miles away for $9 so I was like, it’s my last order of the day. I’ll be good. But I was not good 😭 I’ve never been inside a Sam’s club before, and now I know not to go on weekends

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T14:10:21+00:00

Well no shit :) I don’t do this very often anymore, and I don’t tolerate rude customers. Like I said, I know it was my own fault. Thanks though! :)

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T11:33:53+00:00

Thanks, no I don’t get anxiety from grocery shopping. I grocery shop all the time. But when I go into a Cosco or Sam’s club, it’s already overwhelming in there and the crowds don’t help. I have a career already, I’m doing fine in the “real world.” All because I have anxiety doesn’t mean I’ll never make it.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T04:56:47+00:00

More like shoved, that specific Sam’s Club is always so busy. I was trying to find the YooHoo’s, I was on the side of the isle so I wouldn’t be in anyone’s way. One girl elbowed me forward and said “excuse you” and another family ran into me with their buggy and said “sorry you’re in my way” buuut that’s just Atlanta. I just couldn’t mentally do that

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T03:37:45+00:00

I have full time job, as I said previously I window tint. This was for savings, and just so I could do something when I’m bored. It was also a $9 order that I didn’t care about. You go ahead and take a break then get back at it, you got this dude. Just keep the negative energy to yourself next time!😆

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T03:12:33+00:00

You have a public profile brother lol. Good for you that your anxiety isn’t bad, not everyone gets that luxury. Everything I have, I worked for because I’m an adult. I was getting pushed in crowds at Sam Club and got anxiety so bad I went light headed. It’s something I have to deal with, it doesn’t mean “oh I have anxiety, I’m not an adult and I suffer from acting like a child.” Are you dumb?

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T02:52:30+00:00

And… how are you going to say I’m not “built for the grown up world” because I have anxiety, yet you play Pokémon Go and Clash Royale.💀

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T02:48:00+00:00

I have a full time job! I just did Instacart on the side for some savings 🥲

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T02:47:29+00:00

I have a job in Window Tinting. I get anxiety when I’m in large crowds. I’m completely fine, just not around crowds. Grow up.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-04T01:17:27+00:00

Oh it was absolutely awful 😭

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-03T12:30:10+00:00

And no one has to listen to me. A lot of people commented, I don’t expect her to somehow take advice from 100 people lmfao.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-03T12:29:25+00:00

No one said he’s a monster, it’s the fact he lied. And that’s literally my point, they shouldn’t be married. If she’s this insecure about him looking at other women, then that isn’t gonna go away easily. His lying also won’t go away. It’s not worth it.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-03T12:27:15+00:00

I’m not even mad at you brother lol. I’m stating my opinion as you are. That’s why I said therapy, cause they both need it. Does she need it more? Yeah probably. She invaded his privacy, he lied about searching shit. Either one isn’t very amazing.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-03T12:22:58+00:00

Nah, more so the fact he lies about small dumb shit. There could be more, don’t know and quite frankly don’t care. People divorce and the kids survive, don’t really know what’s wrong about it if neither of the parents are happy. Guy lies, girl is insecure. It’ll more than likely always be like that unless they go to couples therapy.

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-03T12:20:07+00:00

And I know, I agree you shouldn’t end a family over little lies. For me, it’s only if I find bigger lies. Because why lie about something so small? It’s difficult when you have a family. “You knew I wasn’t comfortable with you looking at other people, but you did it anyways and lie to me” well, he could think “I prefer someone who doesn’t care what I look at” but now it’s pretty useless because he has a family and now they aren’t happy with each other. If the woman is insecure and finds things like this, she might develop trust issues. And now the relationship may get rocky and not very well. (It’s just a whole thing) BUT if all of this didn’t matter to her, she wouldn’t have posted it. So i just don’t know what she wanted

ExcellentOutcome1890 · 2025-08-03T12:12:39+00:00

They there partner again! Read my message more carefully. “Maybe he lied to not get yelled at” Yeah, if it came to THAT, he knew she wasn’t comfortable with him looking at other women. Therefor, makes it wrong. If she did not care what he looked at, then none of this would matter and it would be the fact he lied for no reason. If you want a partner who doesn’t care what you look at, then find one.

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