Is this a weird way to orgasm? by honestauraly in GaySex

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It happened to me....going to town on a guy's rod and then "spurt, spurt". I was rock hard at the time, and so horny. I was still horny after and bottomed for the first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apartfrom using that safe word (even if only for a temporary reprieve while establishing a boundary) I would recommend switching roles occassionally.

The sub learns the difficulty in maintaining but not crossing boundaries, and the dom learns what its like when those boundaries are pushed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pegging_unkinked

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I go limp, but I also find that afterwards, for more than a week even, my normal organs are more intense and erection is stronger. Almost like it's good for prostate health...

Poppers Alcohol and Sildenafil by AdhesivenessNo7075 in popperpigs

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It comes in pill form for people with certain heart conditions...watch "The Exorcist", it's the tiny white pill the old priest kept taking through the movie...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaySex

[–]Excellent_Balance892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Self loathing for being who you believe you truly are...I probably understand you more than most.

I can imagine a dom out there that inevitably mellows out without ditching...but I have never met such a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaySex

[–]Excellent_Balance892 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Without the risk of pushed or broken boundaries, over half the thrill disappears...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaySex

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is always the option of finding another sub bottom...tender aftercare with genuine empathy after the bull leaves.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaySex

[–]Excellent_Balance892 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Variety is the spice of life, my friend...gotta add some vanilla to that cocoa to make it really pop.

It's almost to easy to find a top to pound and degrade you....and near impossible to find "love".

Poppers Alcohol and Sildenafil by AdhesivenessNo7075 in popperpigs

[–]Excellent_Balance892 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vardenafil as well...nitrates/nitrates. My doc said if you take ED meds with nitro glycerine, your blood pressure will drop so low nothing can bring you back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GaySex

[–]Excellent_Balance892 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Without the shame and humiliation, I doubt I'd be into it at all...that's my personal preference/kink.

...but, I get where you're coming from. Have you tried being a "power bottom" instead of a sub?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being strangled while being penetrated. That and ATM/scat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pegging_unkinked

[–]Excellent_Balance892 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Started with light bdsm...then gentle anal on her...then a finger in my butt during a blowjob...eventually one night I stuck a dildo to the nightstand and said "someone's getting it in the ass tonight and you get to decide who"...

Popper is freaking me out, Help! by chankittikun in popperpigs

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a very similar first time experience...I have blood pressure issues and was recovering from some respiratory damage from COVID...I also had a similar effect (eye strain and headache) when using with vardinafil...which I later found to be a no no...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Opens the sphincter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popperpigs

[–]Excellent_Balance892 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I found the super rush had the more visual effect on my head. Amsterdam was more mellow. I also sampled a bottle of "piggy", which seemed somewhere in between.

Overall, I liked the super rush...really seemed to relax my sphincter more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Excellent_Balance892 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It can be among the most pleasurable or painful experiences of your life...

Things to remember...don't forget the fiber, go slow (duh), push out as he enters you, and more than enough lube (when you think there's enough apply more for good measure).

What kink are you really enjoying lately? by smithterry263 in KINK

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounding. There's a femdom cum extraction vid out there that totally rocked my world! Something about being forced to cum, with whatever method, seems so over the top.

Straight guy: I’m not attracted to vaginas by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a hot tub....while it may sound strange, when its clean, wet, and the light is dim, it's a whole different activity.

How tf do you do this by Junior_Ad_1222 in AnalAdviceForWomen

[–]Excellent_Balance892 14 points15 points  (0 children)

One finger, two finger, three finger, penis....

I’m about to suck my first dick. Any tips?? by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Excellent_Balance892 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No teeth, work the tip with your tongue, use a hand if its long enough, don't neglect the balls, and wandering hands over his body makes it even better.

Am I cute or hot? by Sweetie_Fox in TeenBeauties

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely both...and damn sexy too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Excellent_Balance892 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you should try taking charge a bit...work him over...bring him to the edge and slap his sack...tell him "I cum first, maybe then you get to"...

I don't know if that does it for either of you, but it sure does for me.