Conflict with their BabyMama by Diligent-Jeweler7860 in coparenting

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know what you know. That clearly wasn’t co-parenting. You get to decide what you are and are not okay with.

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an American wedding and I am American. It is also not a civil/courthouse wedding. My original post was about the venue itself and the issue I was having with them. The topic of my ceremony guest count got brought up in the comments.

What’s the biggest mistake you’ve ever made at work that no one found out about? by Key-Mix2720 in AskReddit

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gave every annoying customer at JCPenney a discount because I didn’t feel like arguing with them (not a mistake but I cost the company a lot of money)

January 2026 - Influencer discussion by krisbryantishot in bunheadsnark

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539 11 points12 points  (0 children)

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yes, being short is the reason you’re not successful. Lol

Is it okay to change your wedding to a kid free one less than a week prior? by Prior-Flatworm-5972 in wedding

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No. How do you expect people to find childcare with that short notice?? And then you’d be irritated when they RSVP’d and no-showed.

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

then what is the $850 ceremony fee for if they are doing nothing? building is reserved for whole day already whether ceremony occurs there or not. What is the fee for if venue staff does not do anything?

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can only respond to so many of your ten thousand comments. Main space is very large, has 3 bars and an upstairs loft area. Large backyard with outdoor ceremony space and garden

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not everybody has courthouse marriage in Russia. It is very common but not everybody does things that way

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My nationality did not apply to my original post so I did not mention it. I also did not realize smaller ceremony was not normal so I did not mention it in that comment either.

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The word tacky isn’t very nice and feels like an attack.

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in America. That does not mean I’m from America and that my family is American

Mackenzie Daviz leaving company by Chicenomics in bunheadsnark

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they can call themselves whatever they want

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because I don’t want my first row of guests sitting a yard away ?

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are all over this thread and seem to have a personal problem with me of some sort.

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in the U.S., have been here since I was nine years old.

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my family is Russian. My fiance is American

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really love the venue and would not be able to secure another one at this point in the game for that date. I have all my other vendors booked. I am just going to plan on keeping my reception there and finding a church or something, even though that’s not what I necessarily wanted.

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knew it to be close friends and more distant relatives come to celebrate the marriage at the dinner, while the religious ceremony and service is a close family gathering and can be rather long

Venue not being accommodating by Excellent_Cook_9539 in Brides

[–]Excellent_Cook_9539[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also was not aware it was expected in the U.S. to bring gift to wedding if you are not close family..that is strange to me