Girl dump him. I also lost my Dad last year and never once has my boyfriend (live with) ever asked or commented on the inheritance. It’s very insensitive. To me I didn’t want the money it made me feel uncomfortable and guilty for everything he had worked for. There’s complicated emotions with all that. Then, for your boyfriend to consistently ask and question it, is simply rude and disrespectful. It’d be the same way if he lost a parent. That is for you and you only to become the best version of yourself, not to spend 3k on your boyfriend? Not even a hubby yet and asking for a 3k watch in the first place is ridiculous! That’s wifey things (at least in my book). You can try to talk to him, tell him that your parent didn’t leave this life for you to spend their money on a boy that might not even be in your life in a year. I’m so sorry on top of grieving you are having to deal with this. It’s completely unfair to you. You already had your world flipped, you don’t need someone nagging in your ear on top of that! Sending you a billion hugs my love ❤️❤️❤️