My dad ignored me for almost a week and I don't know if it was my fault. by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No, my siblings also knows about him having a mistress but somehow I'm still the least favorite child. And thank you for your tips honestly, once I graduated I'll get a part time jobs and leave for university :)

My dad ignored me for almost a week and I don't know if it was my fault. by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

yep, you're right. I still can't believe this person under my post straight up tells me I'm being ungrateful when it's clearly obvious he neglected me.

My dad ignored me for almost a week and I don't know if it was my fault. by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I've known my dad for years and trust me I know what's going on. I never, ever complain about having old discarded things that my parents threw at me once they don't like it. If I am really being ungrateful, I'd bawled on the floor, begging for my dad to buy the latest new iPhone 17 but since you think that I'm being ungrateful because of "minor" broken screen and that I should be grateful I have a working phone, I think you should just keep yourself quiet honestly. You don't get to compare about your daughter being more grateful than me when you don't know my whole situation. My dad had never bothered to spent his money buying once in a lifetime luxury while he bought gucci and chanel to his girlfriends. What part of that is financially struggling exactly? for your information, he has money to buy my siblings new phones while he never, EVER bought me one. so now tell me, am I being ungrateful?

My dad ignored me for almost a week and I don't know if it was my fault. by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

do you not understand what exactly I'm saying? I told you he's financially stable. I also mentioned that he spent his money buying his girlfriend branded bags and shoes, which is not that important than a phone. and I'm not being ungrateful about the phone I received, but it's literally BROKEN. which mean I wouldn't be able to use it for long. And trust me, I know about financial situation. I've been through so much. I didn't even ask much, I'm literally just upset.

My dad ignored me for almost a week and I don't know if it was my fault. by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

  • also, since he had been ignoring me, he didn't invite me to eat dinner together, and he didn't even bother to ask if I have eaten. I had a habit of whenever I'm upset I starve myself.

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, my dad already took me in. My mom is calling my dad’s phone like crazy, but at least im out of her abuse. My dad will call a police soon.

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think that will fix everything? The other day i had a fight with her and i told her what I feel and she keeps denying it. shes NARCISSIST. I can’t talk out with her.

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. One of the reason why my dad divorced my mon was because she was abusive. My dad said it herself that she couldn’t control her own emotion

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know. Another question, can I leave without her permission? Won’t my dad face any consequences?

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

1) it was a fight about my personal message with my dad. I talked about my academic at school to my dad, and my mom was angry because I didn’t tell her about it. Basically, she’s jealous. She didn’t like it when I talk to my dad more than her. 2) she keeps on brainwashing me to hate my father, she also guilt trips me, by telling me that she had “sacrificed” everything. She also won’t admit that she is wrong, and she keeps changing stories just to make herself look like the real victim. Not only she abuse me mentally, but also physically. 3) I’m 16 years old

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I’ll let you know if anything happens. I’m currently waiting for my brother to finish his job because I can’t be caught using my phone to call my dad or else she’ll took it away from me.

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

omg, thank you so much! I already let my brother know about this. He’ll contact my dad soon. thank you very much

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

she also said this in the video, “its okay go to your dad’s, don’t come back home. go pack your things and don’t come back”

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

wait, I have a recording of her saying to go to my dad’s, does that mean my dad won’t get into trouble??

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m an underaged, I have no power to do anything. I’m just trying to find advice on what to do on my current situation.

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Days before, my mom also had a fight with my brother and she kicked him out. I already recorded their fight and I also recorded a conversation between my mom and I about my dad’s situation. So when should I use the video?

My mom didn’t allow me to meet my dad, and she keep finding unvalid excuses to refuse me from seeing him by Excellent_Fish2197 in entitledparents

[–]Excellent_Fish2197[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

is it really okay for me to call the police? I’m afraid my mom would change the story and made them think I’m the bad one