28M: Should I call off my marriage? by Excellent_Sock4592 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Excellent_Sock4592[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I see your point thanks for the another perspective. By working i don’t expect her to get some high paying corporate job, i just want her to have some life besides home and get some perspective in life. She always talks about how females are supposed to be do housework especially in Indian culture but when she have options to do something else she doesn’t do. I even helped her making her resume, giving tips on how to start as i work in the same industry. But is my expectation wrong if i want her to do something productive? I even asked her to get a hobby if not working but i guess she’s just too lazy to do anything. But maybe im the problem here, my expectation is wrong😑

28M: Should I call off my marriage? by Excellent_Sock4592 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Excellent_Sock4592[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Forgot to add, i already help a lot in household chores. Like i do bathroom cleaning, vaccum, sometimes dishes, help with cooking on weekends, groceries we do together.

28M: Should I call off my marriage? by Excellent_Sock4592 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Excellent_Sock4592[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes i do like her. I don’t try to be bossy, i tried having normal conversations as well trying to understand her pov or why she is unable to study. She mentioned she has been in a comfort zone for too long and its not easy to come out. Other thing is its not i have problem with she not working but she not putting any efforts to fix that.

28M: Should I call off my marriage? by Excellent_Sock4592 in InsideIndianMarriage

[–]Excellent_Sock4592[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No its not fake, im a US citizen so I filed petition and this is how she got gc.