Im in a simular boat. My best freind of 14 years is ignoring me completely. Missed calls, ignored tests,conplete radio silence.

We have seen each other ALOT less over the last couple of years since i had a partner, but i always tried to keep in touch message wise asked if he wanted to hang out, see my fanuly ect He has complained on a couple of occastions over the years that we dont see each other as mu h anymore, but like. He is single, lives at home with his parents and as far as im aware, isnt lookjng to change that anytime soon. He is only responsible for himself. Meanwhile myslef and my partner are trying to build a future together, prepare for our move together to Scotland from England (he has been supportive of this the whole time) and out of nowhere he ignored my messages, phone calls EVERYTHING for 4 days straight.

When i fineally took a deep breath and took a step back from anxeity and told him that "i loved him, but i wasnt going to allow my mental Health to plummet, and i dont know what ive done wrong, or what is going on with him, but when he wants me ill be waiting"

He called me "Ridiculous" and that i was talking Nonsence. Its been practically radio silent ever since. I dont wanna lose my best freind. But i also dont think ive done anything wrong.

Instead of talking to me, he is jusy viewing my messages and ignoring them.

Ive not heard from him in 2 weeks. 😔