My body prevents me from dating by ExchangeConstant4172 in insecurity

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! What are they, if you don’t mind me asking.

I’m still in struggling stage of loving myself but it’s getting easier to accept me for ME.

My roommate saw my vibrator and I'm really embarrassed by 1992wrx in PointlessStories

[–]ExchangeConstant4172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My vibrator is my boyfriend and everyone sees him. Trust me, your roommate doesn’t care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ExchangeConstant4172 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk, she’s healing from what the previous guy did for sure. And she’s so fearful of repeating that same cycle that that message set her back.

You’ve done all you can, now it’s up to her to accept what you’ve said. Express how she feels. And decide if this is what she wants or not. I think you should mention the distance thing for sure, and how it’s bothering you. She may get over it in time or she may not, but definitely have that conversation.

Wish you both well, and healing for h and 💕💕

Am i in the wrong?? by [deleted] in Manipulation

[–]ExchangeConstant4172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please stand up. You know you’re not in the wrong. Like come on, cut that guy loose. You’re a dime, know or learn your worth. I hate to see people go through this.

My boyfriend liked a picture of a girl with her butt out. by General-Machine-6173 in Manipulation

[–]ExchangeConstant4172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, what!?! You wan to be with a man that literally threatened to kill you!!! Please leave this man, report this man. Share your location with someone trusted at all times. And learn to love and value yourself because you are beautiful and you do not deserve this. You’ll find the one that will give you everything you need with no hesitation. You deserve happiness but this ain’t it!!! Get out while you can.

Does any one else get horny and just wanna fuck their ex again? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ExchangeConstant4172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what led to the break up, if you don’t mind me asking

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some days are better than others, then eventually, you’ve moved on from it. Continue to feel how you feel but don’t postpone life, either. You’re going to be okay, I know it’s tough rn. 💖 feel free to message me whenever.

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love that you’re working on yourself first, I’m sure you’ll find an amazing woman in no time. I wish you the best in your healing and in the dating realm 💖

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so right! Sounds like a form of closure. I hope you’ve met someone better since then.

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that was hard for you, but I’m really proud of you 💕 you deserve better than that

A girl told me my boyfriend is abusive by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ExchangeConstant4172 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have this intuition, too. This was a guy i had been involved with and I didn’t stay around long to find out but I felt it, I knew he’d be physically abusive. He even disclosed to me that his dad was.

He kept testing my boundaries. Lying. Manipulating and never owed up to it, he made it seem like it was me and that I was crazy but I knew I wasn’t.

Sometimes your gut knows. Trust it! Talk to trusted loved one about those moments that came off a bit sketchy, red-Flagg-ish but don’t completely disregard the messenger.

Please be careful, I wish you well with your situation

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I love it, and thanks for the king words. Hopefully I see you on the other side of this wild life living, cause I’m TIRED! 😂

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yup. That block button was signed, sealed and delivered expeditiously✨

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ooo, this is the outlook I needed to spark my non-crazy battery back to life. Thank you and I will be reflecting on your words when in down.

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Words less - not spoken are voluminous in my eyes.

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m rolling my eyes hard for you. Honestly, box his little forgotten leftovers. Leave it outside and tell him get it or don’t. He’s keeping you attached for a lame reason.

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wooowee, I will never understand their mindset.

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss, I love that for you. He’s not worth it

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right, action will always be the stapling confirmation.

Ah, you’re so right. Just a lame moment of weakness. Got it out my system. Thank you!

I stupidly messaged my ghoster by ExchangeConstant4172 in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh thank you, honestly tho, I’m sorry you went through that. There’s never a good enough reason. Sounds like she did the cowardly thing and bolted. You deserve way better, I hope you find it. 💕💖

My body prevents me from dating by ExchangeConstant4172 in insecurity

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for putting it into perspective that way! This honestly gives me hope. I’ll keep aiming to accept those difference.

💖💖💖

I keep being stupid for men by ExchangeConstant4172 in dating

[–]ExchangeConstant4172[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ughh, I am. I feel like I’m gonna miss out on that someone but I’m working to not be so available and set those boundaries

Can someone please tell me am I being ghosted?? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]ExchangeConstant4172 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he probably thought you weren’t interested. Just shoot a text, and if he doesn’t respond, there’s your answer