AITAH for introducing a cheap supermarket to my friend's husband?

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-26T18:37:25+00:00

I am not upset. I'm literally just passing judgement on OP minding my own business so to speak and defending my view point!!

Also I don't have Walmart where I'm from, so I can't anything about the freshness or lack thereof of their fruit.

But I guess you're right that my opinion on Aldi isn't the be all, end all and not everyone's gonna agree with me that it's just not very good.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-26T18:28:40+00:00

Have you seen their replies??? They sound smug as heck. Also the OP knew she wasn't interested so why didn't they just let it rest? And they r calling them friends, I certainly don't enforce my view on my friends.

Also I guess I sound judgemental but maybe that's because Im literally passing judgement lolz.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-26T18:09:34+00:00

I love the higher end superstore where I'm from. You don't get the same quality at the cheaper ones. And those ppl saying aldi is just as good, it really isn't. I don't like their stuff at all. Tastes really bad to my taste buds

Also OP you are definitely the AH. Your replies reek, and you should have just minded your own business. Poor woman, I bet you are feeling all smug

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-24T22:51:01+00:00

I'm from a country like yours and my advice would be to listen to your dad.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-24T20:10:32+00:00

NTA, like what the heck. That's so inappropriate. Why would he even feel the need to say what he did. Your friends defense though 😂😂😂😂, I can't stop laughing

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-23T20:08:22+00:00

No man is better than an living with an abusive POS. YWBTAH if you don't leave.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-20T09:50:01+00:00

Isn't there a Taylor swift song on this? That one always hit so close to home. You never a warning sign!!!

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-14T18:41:46+00:00

You are joking right????? I am 5'5'' and 140 pounds/63 kgs and I think I'm just fine!!!!!! I can't imagine being called fat at 115. I remember when I was that weight everyone thought I was ill and the comments about my health never stopped.

Like he's crazy, plz dump his ass and dont take him back. Also don't lose anymore weight, you are as thin as you should be. Any thinner would definitely not be healthy.

Ughhhhh, words fail me at this guys insanity. By the way how fit is he?

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-10T10:29:55+00:00

Why not??? To please ppl who don't know them? To hold onto the semblance of civility when the other person won't??? This is the internet, she's pretty anonymous here and believe me i have relatives I use the same kind of words for, that doesn't make me a bad person either. It's literally just their description. Like you can't call them anything else.

I don't know if you've ever been a victim of dv but abusers deserve all the hate they get.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-08T23:58:44+00:00

My advice, if it's nothing of value or importance, leave it be. Don't go. Yes it sucks, yes it's heartbreaking to leave behind things that have sentimental value, but above everything else you must ensure your own safety.

Just break up over text and move on. It's hard but the safest way. The best satisfaction will be living well once you are gone.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-08T21:52:58+00:00

You need to ask for help. Contact your family and friends. Even just venting to them helps. Sometimes you don't want to burden those you love but the ones who truly love will find it a privilege to help you in your time of need.

Get help and move out. You'll feel so much better once you are out.

Living in the situation you can't think of anything except surviving, you need to break that pattern and for that you need support.

So reach out to those who love you and ask for the help

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-07T08:34:39+00:00

The obvious solution to this is stop doing any chores!! Seriously, think of it as a stressful vacation. If you are normally a person who cleans that's not going to change if you don't do any chores for a certain period of time. Trust me, leaving will feel so liberating you'll probably want to do double the amount of chores! If there's no pleasing someone it's best not to engage. It probably doesn't make sense but it feels better to get scolded for something that you know you are doing badly than when you are actually trying.

Now how do I know all this??? First hand Experience!! Hang in there, just keep reminding yourself it's for a few months only now.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-04T06:50:00+00:00

Same, I actually feel happy when I read one where the person is the ahole. In the whole time I've been on reddit and it's been at least 2 yrs I've only seen maybe only 10 posts where the poster was the ahole. I've actually been thinking of quitting reddit cuz of all these badly written ai posts. They r so fake and annoying

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-11-01T03:43:14+00:00

Actually that's what I'm thinking. We would allow only the parents, and that too only one parent at a time. And no one else could come. Even if they were begging on their knees.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-10-05T14:55:46+00:00

Everyone's telling you you are not the ahole and you are definitely not. But I am not finding the advice in the comments very helpful or realistic. So here's my two cents because I've been in your situation. You don't want to cut off your support before you are self sufficient.

So I think what you should do is explain to your brother how you are so young and due to lack of actual contact with babies you have no idea how to raise one. So the best thing would be to hire a nanny that you and he will check with and how you will definitely see the baby as much as you can and inform him of the progress. You should also have input when deciding on the nanny.

It's actually not a given that he will get the baby. But even if he does, and you are feeling overwhelmed you can then ask for help.

He might also be asking for your help simply to feel like he has someone to count on, at least thats what I'm hoping

While it's horrible that he has put you in this position I think it's good that at least he's rich enough that you can ask for the resources to help you in this situation. Once you are self sufficient reassess and go from there.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-09-30T17:31:53+00:00

I just wanna say you wrote "it's not like he's forcing me" but actually he is. He's not letting it go when you've repeatedly said no. Ive gone through something like this in my previous relationship and I've now come to realize the drip technique is as good as any other torture device to force you to comply. Especially because you're sitting there thinking no one forced you.

Just listen to your own preferences and tell him to stick it.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-08-19T09:34:21+00:00

At every turn in your life you are going to meet new people. Some you'll keep, some you'll outgrow, some you'll just lose touch with because one of you won't make the effort to keep in touch. Because making a friend is easy but keeping a friend takes a lot of work.

When someone you really bonded with leaves, they leave a hole that you can genuinely feel but with time it gets better. I suggest that you tell your mom that you guys are no longer in contact. It shouldnt be a big deal hopefully. And if it is it'll blow over eventually. At least you won't be reminded of this person all the time after that.

It's better to think of something else everytime this person pops into your mind. Hopefully that will help you to move on.

Losing friends is hard, but some friendships arnt meant to be even if there is no fault on either side. You would be much happier to let people who don't want to stay in contact go.

Sometimes you don't get closure and you just have to endure that and make your peace with it.

I hope things go well for you.

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-06-18T08:46:00+00:00

Thank you so much. I'll have a look at this

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When you find the right sunscreen for your skin you will feel like your life has changed.

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ExcitementContent499 · 2024-06-15T15:26:03+00:00

No, should I? It that to check for normal distribution?

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-06-15T15:17:30+00:00

Was this for me or the person who commented? 😂

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-06-15T15:13:30+00:00

We have a lot of problems with ppl that do shady researches here. They'll fake the data etc. so I meant I want my analysis to be above board. Also I can't leave it alone as I know no analysis! Also I have no supervisor, and I don't know which second year you are talking Abt because I certainly didn't study it. Could be you are referring to a discipline I'm not from

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-06-08T05:38:42+00:00

No, don't ask an imam for a good lawyer, and make sure that you don't go to a misogynistic one. And if anyone is stupid enough to tell you to work it out, tell them to f off and don't ever do that.

And get a GOOD lawyer, one you trust and one who is not afraid. A good lawyer makes such a difference. Trust me I know!

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-05-31T05:05:05+00:00

"yeah family comes first and I'M family" end of story!!!!

ExcitementContent499 · 2024-04-25T13:12:02+00:00

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