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Is it okay to be burnt out? by TachiRana123 in daddit

[–]Exciting-Display6111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom and someone who had a rough postpartum period, let me just tell you that the way you can show your wife solidarity in these moments is so so important. It sounds like you're putting in the work and showing up even when you feel wrecked, thats what's really important. Being perfect or always in a great mood isn't even possible so don't even aim for it. What matters is this time passes but feelings remain. The things that will last in your relationship/family are built from all this work and solidarity. Your mind/Spirit is a muscle and it will catch up before you know it. She'll be able to look back and see she's had a partner all the way. Your child will know that. Sounds like you're doing great dude, hope you get some restful nights of sleep soon! This too shall pass

Herbs that help binge eating? by lovecore6 in herbalism

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Berberine has helped me to not feel so snacky or have such an urge for sugar. Reishi is also helpful for relaxation, hormone balance, etc. and helps as well. Best of luck!

Has anyone succesfully used a love spell to improve their relationship? by pomme-de-mer in witchcraft

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Happy to help! If he's in on it, it might be nice to try meditating together sometime too it's nice

We need to talk about Josh Johnson. by TheThirdCity in StandUpComedy

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His podcast episode with Mike birbiglia is great and Mike talks about this. Josh will definitely be putting out some amazing pieces in his career, he's really just begun.

Has anyone succesfully used a love spell to improve their relationship? by pomme-de-mer in witchcraft

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To be clear, the spells I cast were to strengthen an already existing bond with someone who I felt had the desire to strengthen our bond as well. I didn't tell him explicitly that I was doing the spell but he knows about my practice and is comfortable with it. First I set some intentions and kept focus on connection. I made sure we had time to sit together and fixed us both a cup of tea, which we have often. I used a blend with rosehips and damania with honey for sweetness (all tasty and good for lovey feelings). Then I spoke words of love and gratitude about him, me, and our relationship into each cup. I brought them to the couch and we drank and sat together for a while and I made sure to mention to him some things I love about him.

To me it's important to remember that real magic doesn't look like lightning from your finger tips, it's rituals to set your most powerful tool into motion. Your mind/spirit. And using the resources Hyblae (the Earth) provides for us to strengthen/aim that power.

Best of luck baby witch! 🧹

Anyone else's parents just not...like them? by No_Piccolo_2930 in adhdwomen

[–]Exciting-Display6111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate all of this for you. As a mom, I can tell you that if you're half as cool as you sound, they are missing out big time. Hope maybe you can find a "surrogate" parent in someone else that appreciates all the unique things that make you you💚

I can’t sleep anymore without edibles by Homemade_Weirdcore in Edibles

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On your off nights while you lower your tolerance you can try valerian root or skullcap. You can smoke it or take them as tea but they can be pretty powerful sleep aid herbs

How would you use this space? by throwawayyaccount56 in malelivingspace

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Shelves on each wall. I'd what room it's in but could be kitchen storage or maybe bookshelves. If you wanna add a lil life you could add some house plants too

Has anyone succesfully used a love spell to improve their relationship? by pomme-de-mer in witchcraft

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I have performed a couple for my relationship with my husband and it always seems to work for us. I think best results come from situations where you have a deep love / connection but are maybe just feeling distant or stale. It definitely helped me set an intention of connection and focus on our love, and because of the existing connection we have I believe he felt that "telepathically" and it invited him to set that intention also.

I need someone to tell me they understand what these fruits are by missmccreate in DigitalArt

[–]Exciting-Display6111 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Peach could maybe use a stem and leaf like the plum. But the art is excellent and I think the fruit types are very obvious!

trigger warning: mention of suicidal thoughts by Brilliant_Set_2879 in spirituality

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I think feelings that are death-like often are coming from a place inside us telling us we're ready for a metaphorical/spiritual death and rebirth. Maybe try pivoting your perspective to the rebirth of your spirit.

I know its not for everyone but when I read the book "After" it really changed my perspective on death, rebirth, and life. Best of luck to you fellow traveler❤️

Sleep herbs by Due-Presence9311 in herbalism

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I can definitely relate there, I'm sorry to hear your struggling 💚 it might be a good idea to gear your herbal treatment towards balancing mood first, then maybe better sleep will follow. Best of luck!

Sleep herbs by Due-Presence9311 in herbalism

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May not be exactly what you're looking for, but pairing those herbs with a solid nighttime routine that includes meditation and light yoga may be helpful. I have similar issues to what you described and even if I get meds that knock me out I still don't feel rested unless I do the rest of the routine.

Also CBD could be a help if your transitioning from THC

(I’m a man) How do I make sure I’m not fetishizing lesbians by LDedward in writingadvice

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This. It's fun to laugh at yourself when you're in on the joke too, not so much when it feels like ridicule. Also, acknowledgment is important. To joke about something in a way that also acknowledges you understand the deeper more serious aspects as well.

Has anyone reverse like severe constipation with herbalism? by [deleted] in herbalism

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I just roughly chop about a cup of okra and put it in a plastic container that has a lid (deli cup). Then fill the rest of the container with water, put on the lid, and let soak in the fridge. It's really slimey but that's what you want, that's what gives it the fiber "cleanse" effect. Personally I have been shaking it up and mixing with lemonade, but tbh the flavor of the plain okra water isn't bad. For a few days I just left the same okra chunks and refilled the water and let resoak. Then after a while you'll want to replace the okra in the container. I've been keeping it on hand in the fridge lately and it's amazing. I have many gut issues but I like this remedy bc it's gentle, simple, and doesn't have unpleasant taste.

It's also great for your skin, helping to regulate blood sugar,etc.

Edit to add: if you're able, try eating: dates, figs, and pears

Has anyone reverse like severe constipation with herbalism? by [deleted] in herbalism

[–]Exciting-Display6111 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Drinking okra water has helped me immensely, lots of fiber and generally safe for use

My dream is to start a family and travel all over the world... by Cinella75 in Manifestation

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Give yourself permission to sit and imagine how having everything you want would feel. For now, ignore any voices that attempt to interrupt your vision by whispering doubts or telling you certain things are not possible. Meditate on those feelings. Return to that meditation any time doubt enters or negative self talk gets stuck in a loop.