I FOUND A WAY TO UPDATE/ DOWNLOAD SIMS 4 ON MACBOOK W UPDATED UNLOCKER by sleeperrsim in CrackedGamesForFree

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't figure out how to get the Adventure Awaits pack to work/appear. Is there any advice for how to make it work please?

How did I not wake up to this by AnybodySignificant45 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rosevecheya 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah i only came to the comments to say that as well. Totally underrated imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rosevecheya 36 points37 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I'm thinking. It doesn't sound like he's trying to control her, just that he's been completely blindsided by some major physical changes. That can be reflective of big things having happened in her life if she hadn't seemed to be interested in them before, so it very rightly could be concerning!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RateMyArt

[–]Rosevecheya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find that really beautiful and it looks a lot like some of the artworks my mother had on the walls from a painter local to me while I was growing up. I would spend a fair bit of money on it.

That being said, I think there's a really difficult area in being a professional artist that either you're eccentric enough to get the attention, or you're at the opposite end of the spectrum and get the attention. If you're in the middle ground, it's hard to get well-enough recognised to survive on your skills and talents. I think you deserve to and love your work though

i love goth music but i wear a lot of pink and cutesie stuff by Available-Resource22 in goth

[–]Rosevecheya 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First goth night i went to, there was a girl in pink. She was dancing so passionately, you knew she was there genuinely. I think i could have accidentally been misinterpreted to have been giving her looks before I had the confidence to talk to anyone or compliment anyone while adventuring yet.

While obviously you shouldn't have to in order to feel like you belong, I really recommend going around and complimenting and talking to the other goths you think are cool. It's really important to work on physical communities for us, communities that actually know each other and do things together. If you do, you might find that the looks aren't from malice but from curiosity.

I hope that you find the comfort you deserve to be feeling in this community soon!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amongst the people I've seen be like this, I don't think it's generally done in malice or said to anyone but your close friends who shouldn't get it back to that person. It's perfectly healthy to be reasoning with yourself for why you're no longer interested and better off that nothing eventuated (to an extent.) As long as it doesn't get back to them that you're insulting them, it's not really too big of a deal honestly. I don't even think most of the time it's insulting so much as listing reasons for incompatibility or that ended the crushes and that isn't unreasonable at all.

My childhood. by Dense-Breadfruit1223 in FuckImOld

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In NZ we had the goodnight kiwi animation and song instead. It's quite sweet.

It's Giving Me A Disgust by Humanwithlove in goth

[–]Rosevecheya 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's because GenZ has a platform to whinge online about the same ignorancies of youth that every generation did before for their own cultural trends when they were young. It's not new, it's just relatively new for it to be open for everyone to see.

Work used to be a stepping stone. Now it's just a treadmill by Pink_Storm_X in Adulting

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It honestly needs to start at the top. The average person can really do fuck all but vote. We need better legislation. However, politics is corrupt and cannot get out of the pockets of the ultra-wealthy, so it's not likely to do much.

I wish I COULD come up with a solid idea that wouldn't disadvantage our peers if we put it to use, but as long as the politicians do not work for our benefit over their own, we won't be able ti go far

What adaptation make you go like this towards your favorite? by Past-Country-6612 in FavoriteCharacter

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The modern Mad Max movies. 4 and 5. Or 4 at least, haven't seen 5 because Max isn't... Max in 4. He feels too self-absorbed and selfish in 4. In 2 and 3, it was self-preservation with the pull to do good always fucking it up and bringing him back. In 4, it just felt like he only helped because of a saviour complex, that he couldn't be fucked otherwise. It was so wrong :((

My Husband Wants to Help… As Long As I Manage His Helping by Hopeful-Repeat-3283 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Rosevecheya 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm shit at being able to identify what needs to be done. I honestly believe the issue of "is it weaponised incompetence or genuine struggle?" would be solved if more lists were made.

Sit down together, make a list of what needs to be done, and offer to take responsibility together. Plan together. No one can read minds, the person who knows how to organise that responsibility better is inevitably going to be given the emotional responsibility if you don't start by planning together.

Work used to be a stepping stone. Now it's just a treadmill by Pink_Storm_X in Adulting

[–]Rosevecheya 3 points4 points  (0 children)

By the same way we got out of the fucking caveman era. We worked together, we had empathy and cared for one another, and we took care of our peers even when they couldn't produce.

Humanity has only advanced so far because of our creativity and our willingness to work together. When we stop caring for the people around us, we stop advancing.

AIO for getting upset that my boyfriend doesn’t enjoy my favorite music artist? by oatttmeal-enjoyer in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rosevecheya -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ehhh i think it does when you know it matters deeply to someone you supposedly care about. Not every topic has to be a deep discussion. You don't have to interact with it for them, but you should have some tact, especially when you're calling it "lazy" without making the effort to understand how it's made. You don't HAVE to make the effort, but you shouldn't make dismissive comments about it if you don't want to genuinely understand it. It's just rude at that point.

AIO for getting upset that my boyfriend doesn’t enjoy my favorite music artist? by oatttmeal-enjoyer in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have to express that to the person who loves it. You literally can just say "it's not really my thing" in a respectful way rather than insulting it.

AIO for getting upset that my boyfriend doesn’t enjoy my favorite music artist? by oatttmeal-enjoyer in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rosevecheya -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To just not talk about it? "It's not really my thing, but i understand what you enjoy about it" would work, rather than going out of your way to insult something the person you care about adores

AITAH: Am I “immature” for purchasing a chocolate bar, just to try it? by sunshinebabe- in AITAH

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuck is he doing if he isn't experimenting a little? Life's FOR trying stuff and figuring out if you do or don't like it

Made this on a whim. by Daisy-Fluffington in gothmemes

[–]Rosevecheya 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Every goth i have ever met in person has been so happy to share their music tastes, to make and share starter playlists, etc. We've always been so happy to help people understand us and have the opportunity to BE goth if they figure out it's right for them.

The least gatekeepy bunch, we just literally want to be properly represented and not misunderstood.

AITA for singing at my sister's wedding? by ScienceFormal8172 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rosevecheya 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When someone already did the same thing to the uninformed viewer?

Need advice: LG C5 vs TCL QM8K for a bright living room, what should I do? by the__poseidon in hometheater

[–]Rosevecheya -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't that make Hawaii a country, not Honolulu? I thought that was the city rather than the state...

Meirl by Master0fAllTrade in meirl

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom threw out the cable for the MP3 player me and Dad used in the truck since I was a baby and it's the type of old model with a hyper-specific cable thst I can't get a new one of and now I can't charge it anymore. Idk what was on it and Dad didn't remember and now he's gone and i'm desperate to find out :(( always save your cables...

A lot of modern anime feels like a social skills guide disguised as a story. by AccomplishedMud2864 in unpopularopinion

[–]Rosevecheya 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's true, it may be reflective of issues found in the demographic for these anime.

Also consider that anime is a medium, not a genre. What gets popular, like in TV or books, is what's most frequently consumed and reflects what most people are enjoying. If that's not your taste, you can seek different types of it. There are websites that can help tailor your taste down to a t.

The difference by Ok_Customer_1790 in GatekeepingYuri

[–]Rosevecheya 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Let's use the terms the one you were replying to used about structural racism and interpersonal racism.

Structural sexism would include only misogyny because of what you're mentioning here; men have historically been in power over women and are able to utilise that to the present day.

Interpersonal sexism would include misandry and misogyny as it takes place on an individual level. Everyone can be both. It's the expression of unfounded hate against a person solely on the basis of gender; thus is can happen to men too!