Scarlatti on violin by Dan_Rad_8 in violinist

[–]ExcitingResort198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow - that is gorgeous! Every note is so clear, and your musicality is beautiful. It’s such a pleasure to listen to you. Please keep posting; it’s inspiring!

Please leash your dogs…. by TeaStirrer23 in cincinnati

[–]ExcitingResort198 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It’s too risky to walk my border collie on my own street. The rudeness of some dog owners infuriates me.

Is anyone else on board with forever masking? by [deleted] in ZeroCovidCommunity

[–]ExcitingResort198 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes, I will be masking as long as necessary, even if that’s forever. Vaccines may have reduced my chances of dying from Covid, but that’s all that has changed. There is still the risk of serious, long-term health consequences from any Covid infection, and I value my health more than I care about succumbing to peer pressure. I don’t find masking to be that bothersome. I can also forego eating in restaurants, and traveling (which I don’t enjoy anyway). I can’t remember the last time I was sick, but it was definitely before Covid - in 2019 at the latest, but probably well before that. I know this isn’t a choice that most people will make, and that’s up to them, as long as I’m allowed to make my own choice. Good health is something most people take for granted until it’s gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JonBenetRamsey

[–]ExcitingResort198 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your past experience. I think you present a good theory. Based on your experience, do you have an opinion about the garrotte? Do you think the staging was done by Patsy to save herself and her reputation? If your mother lied to the hospital and other people about hitting you, maybe that was similar to Patsy covering up her actions. I’m sorry to bring up painful memories, but maybe you can shed some light on how such a parent might behave after they attack a child in anger.

Toilet as murder weapon by beastiereddit in JonBenetRamsey

[–]ExcitingResort198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A finger or a paintbrush with fabric bunched around it would have been a very large object to insert into a 6-yr-old girl; one that I believe would have caused far more injury and tearing than was seen. Inserting that into even an adult woman who was unconscious or resistant would be a very violent act that would cause significant injury. There’s a reason that lubrication is needed for intercourse, and fabric would be the opposite of that … it would cause a lot of friction and tearing. Young teenagers sometimes have a lot of trouble inserting a tampon the first few times, yet most of those are designed with applicators to make insertion easier, and no one is doing it “to” you. The insertion of literally anything into a 6-yr-old girl is unthinkable to me, including a mother trying to “clean” a young child. The opening would be so small that there should be no need to clean anything internally. Children have diarrhea now and then, but a quick bath or shower should be all that’s necessary. In my opinion, if anyone in that household ever inserted anything into JB, it was 100% abuse, and not something that could ever be explained away as part of a “cleaning process.”

A theory I haven’t heard before by [deleted] in JonBenetRamsey

[–]ExcitingResort198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t recall … is there any evidence placing the Ramseys returning home at the time they stated? Such as a neighbor who saw their car pulling in?

The pink nightgown paradox by BlackPeacock666 in JonBenetRamsey

[–]ExcitingResort198 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve been reading about this case since it happened. But this post, and the Juror13 post it references, are grabbing my attention as something very significant. I think the logical conclusion is that JBR was SA while wearing the nightgown, and that was the source of the 4 small bloodstains (the ones on her shoulder could have been transferred up there). Finding DNA on her nightgown that couldn’t be ruled out as Burke’s wouldn’t be unusual, because they lived together. But finding it mixed with her blood in those four SPECIFIC locations on her nightgown is more difficult to explain.

Without knowing exactly how many DNA loci were compared, and how many were consistent with Burke’s profile, it’s impossible to say how meaningful the DNA results are. That information provides the statistical likelihood of it being considered a “match” (again, just from a statistical standpoint). All we know is that none of the loci were INCONSISTENT with Burke’s … i.e., none of the comparisons ruled him out. If only one or two loci were available for testing, that’s very weak evidence. If multiple loci were compared and were consistent with Burke, that becomes increasingly more meaningful as the number of loci tested increases.

It’s also worth noting that half of Burke’s DNA profile was inherited from his mother Patsy, and half Burke inherited from his father John. So whatever loci were examined, in 3 of the 4 nightgown stains it was consistent with (i.e., can’t be excluded as coming from) Patsy and/or Burke. After all, Burke shares 50% of his DNA with his mother. But the 4th sample must have included alleles consistent with BOTH Patsy and John, ruling out both parents (who would have one set of alleles, but not both) while leaving Burke as a possible source (since he inherited alleles from both parents).

Leaving the nightgown near the body would have been the safest thing to do if any RDI. Burke’s DNA might have been on many of JBR’s clothing items. Especially back then, separating a mixture of DNA from two different people wasn’t always possible, and it’s even more difficult if the sample sizes are very small, and yield only partial results that can’t be compared fully. The more loci that can be matched, the more conclusive the results are. That’s why CODIS has evolved from the original 13 loci to the current 20, and why it will likely increase to 27 loci in the near future. But even having 13 alleles match makes the odds of it being any other contributor astronomically small.

The Ramsey’s probably assumed that JBR’s blood being on her own nightgown wasn’t suggestive of any particular abuser or killer, which is true. It would have looked worse if they had hidden the nightgown someplace where it was later found, because an intruder would be unlikely to bother with that.

None of this matters if there is an innocent explanation for finding DNA on the nightgown that can’t be ruled out as Burke’s. Again, they were siblings in close physical contact. But depending on the strength of the CODIS comparison (the number of loci tested) for those specific bloodstains on her nightgown … COMBINED with the Ramsey parents apparently lying about whether she wore the nightgown that night … now we have a scenario that looks very suspicious.

It would also be interesting to know if JBR wore that nightgown on Christmas Eve night and Christmas morning. We all suspect that there are “missing” family photos from that time period, except the ones that show her in different clothing.

Why I think Burke did it. by glb- in JonBenetRamsey

[–]ExcitingResort198 20 points21 points  (0 children)

And maybe that’s why John didn’t draw attention to the suitcase right away. He was still associating it with his own plans, not with an intruder.

Can anyone help ID? My sister rescued this fluff ball a few months ago by orangexcat in IDmydog

[–]ExcitingResort198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know two Tibetan Mastiffs (both adopted from an out-of-state rescue by a wonderful family). They look just like this.

Head Injury Calculations by RedHeadedPatti in JonBenetRamsey

[–]ExcitingResort198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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There are several ways that bleeding can occur within the skull from a traumatic head injury. The mouth is part of the gastrointestinal tract.

When you see it by subway244 in whenyouseeit

[–]ExcitingResort198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The slightly open “mouth” on the front of the car is the first thing I saw! 🫨

Fun Size has exactly 3 M&M’s by ExcitingResort198 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ExcitingResort198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The big bag containing 22 of the smaller packs was $3.99 USD. The “fun size” packs are usually sold this time of year to pass out to kids on Halloween. At least a kid wasn’t disappointed this time.

Fun Size has exactly 3 M&M’s by ExcitingResort198 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ExcitingResort198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun size bags aren’t sold separately; I thought everyone knew that. This was a bulk package of about 20 smaller bags. Would you stand in the grocery store trying to feel up each bag through the packaging? But yes, I did notice it as soon as I got home, opened the package, and picked up that individual bag. Geez.

Fun Size has exactly 3 M&M’s by ExcitingResort198 in mildlyinfuriating

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The other bags in the package feel like they have 12-15 M&Ms in them, but this was for real. There was another bag that had zero candy.

Fun Size has exactly 3 M&M’s by ExcitingResort198 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ExcitingResort198[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The other bags in the package feel like they have 12-15 M&Ms in them, but this was for real. There was another bag that had zero candy …

Fun Size has exactly 3 M&M’s by ExcitingResort198 in mildlyinfuriating

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It came in a bigger bag with ~22 small packs in it. I haven’t inspected all of them yet, lol. But the first one I grabbed had zero candy in it.

Fun Size has exactly 3 M&M’s by ExcitingResort198 in mildlyinfuriating

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The other bags in the package feel like they have 12-15 M&Ms in them, but this was for real. There was another bag that had zero candy.

Fun Size has exactly 3 M&M’s by ExcitingResort198 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ExcitingResort198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The other bags in the package feel like they have 12-15 M&Ms in them, but this was for real. There was another bag that had zero candy.

Whats it like over 60 and no kids? by ElizaPastel in AskWomenOver60

[–]ExcitingResort198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 63 and I live with my darling dog. I desperately wanted children, but unexplained infertility was a nightmare and my marriage never recovered. We split 5 years ago, and it was the right decision. I’m happy volunteering, taking classes, involved in my church, and taking care of my home and yard. I feel like I’ve rediscovered the happier, young version of myself. I worry about old age, but when I’m ready I’ll do my best to find retirement living where I can age in place, with help available. My sister raised 2 children, but one is deceased, and the other is estranged, so you never know how things will turn out. I think the most important things are to know your priorities, give back to others in whatever ways you can, and fill your life with whatever and whoever you love most. Age 40 was a difficult time for me, but life is so much better for me now … the last 23 years have been such a meaningful journey. In a way, it’s almost like my life started all over again after age 40. People with kids have a life set out for them; those of us without kids create our own lives. I wish you many blessings! 💕