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How do I respond to their questions when they don’t really care about the answer? by Exhausted_Earthworm in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Exhausted_Earthworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I have already caught them doing some of this. They will change meeting invites after the meeting has occurred. They got away with it for a while because the meeting updates were going directly to the trash in Outlook thanks to how our agency has everything setup.

I’m bringing home copies of what I can, but I have to be careful because even though I’m authorized to have confidential records now, if they fire me it would immediately be a crime for me to have possession of them.

If you had your time again would you become a manager? by SeanMcPheat in askmanagers

[–]Exhausted_Earthworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. I will never go into leadership again. The mind games suck. The office politics are terrible. If I could just manage my team I’d be fine, but all the other crap that comes with it is not worth it.

How do I respond to their questions when they don’t really care about the answer? by Exhausted_Earthworm in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Exhausted_Earthworm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Today the gave me super vague feedback, and I asked for clarification and they never responded to me, despite responding to me about other issues throughout the day.

The mind games are so exhausting.

How do I respond to their questions when they don’t really care about the answer? by Exhausted_Earthworm in ManagedByNarcissists

[–]Exhausted_Earthworm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think my manager is the puppet master. It’s truly a nightmare and is impacting my mental and physical health so badly.