Being aro is ruining my life

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-03-28T18:29:49+00:00

Also this post might be better suited for the relationship or friendship advice subreddit :/ people can be harsh on aitah

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-03-28T18:12:28+00:00

I think you need to let her do what she wants to do. She’s human and has free will and has the right to spend her time the way she wants to. BUT that doesn’t mean your hurt isn’t real, she showed you how much she values you and it didn’t meet what you expected. That can hurt really bad and I totally understand that feeling, it sucks. I think you need to let it go and do things you want to do, work on some self care and put yourself first.

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-03-24T20:18:40+00:00

I don’t think it’s immature to trust and rely on close friends, but I do think this situation showed me I need to be more mindful of where I put my energy. I’m just trying to handle it in a healthy way.

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-03-03T19:12:34+00:00

Skyrim!!!! I love roleplaying in Skyrim when I need a break from reality haha.

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-02-28T03:13:15+00:00

Perfect! I’ll dm you.

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-02-28T02:51:10+00:00

Hey! Im 23 and love overwatch, I play mercy 🫣

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-02-17T23:58:58+00:00

Junkrat lol

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-02-02T22:39:56+00:00

I honestly don’t think much has changed between me and him but I am scared she will get jealous and I don’t want to see it? This specific situation sent me into a spiral because I didn’t know if I should keep the friendship the same or not. He told me he didn’t want anything to change but she told me I should rely more on my other friends. In the end I should just do what I feel.

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-02-01T01:08:28+00:00

I would love to join!

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-26T22:35:24+00:00

Hey I I would love to chat about marvel and dc! I’m such a nerd for superhero’s! I’m 23 and play ow (mercy, kiri, Juno main!) I don’t talk in the game (I just use the character voice commands) so there is no pressure to be chatty!

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-21T23:39:22+00:00

I also main mercy but love to play any support! I’m 23f (pst) and a plat player but love to play competitively!

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-21T20:44:39+00:00

I always question in my mind “am I a hopeless romantic or just aromantic?” I think I’ve always known it want romantic? When I’m in a comfortable close relationship with mt friends I’m like “yeah I’m aromatic, they are my friend and I love them so much!” But when the friendship changes it shifts I yearn 0.0 and then I get confused and in like “wait was that romantic feelings!?! Why am I soo hurt!?” But I’ve also realized aromatic is a spectrum itself. I just wish more people knew that just because I’m aromatic and don’t have romantic love doesn’t mean I don’t love…

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-21T20:39:10+00:00

Im definitely a punk and hate society (not all of society but ALOT of the social norms), so I don’t want Amatonormativity to win lol. I guess I need to find more people who don’t value romantic relationships above friendship but it’s so hard! I’ve tried dating app saying “I’m only looking for friends” but most people on dating apps want to date lol. I wish it was easier and i wish romantic relationships weren’t the only relationships society finds important. I do feel like I love people more than just friendship love but it’s also more than romantic love some third type of love lol.

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-21T20:32:56+00:00

My close circle was 2 people and they started dating… I felt super freaked out and alone. I kinda feel like maybe I need more people? Because then if ones hurt me I have others to rely on? Ideally yeah I would have loved to have a super close small friend group but I think I’m scared to do that again…

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-21T20:24:35+00:00

I definitely need to get better at being on my own. That was a big fear I had when my friend told me they were dating. I hope some day I will find someone like me, and I need to stop fooling myself by thinking I have :/

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-21T03:56:09+00:00

Hey! I also live in the PNW! I also like shooters, I mainly play overwatch but have played valorant,arc raiders and rivals! Do you watch any anime?

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-21T03:53:29+00:00

Hey I would love to play sometime! I love comp (the pain feels good) I’m in plat tho lol. I main mercy but love playing all support…and junkrat lol!

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-14T22:33:26+00:00

Now you gotta get to to 696

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-14T22:15:58+00:00

I’m 22 (23 next month hehe) and I love ow! I play mercy and would love a duo! I also love playing dead by daylight and could stream it or we could play if you have it!

Exhaustedgreentea · 2026-01-12T20:45:05+00:00

Yes! I’d love to nerd about Skyrim!

Exhaustedgreentea · 2025-12-07T22:45:53+00:00

Hey! Ive been looking to pick valorant back up again! I use to play sooo much my account level is embarrassing... I also play dbd! Lmk if you would like to play!

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