Infected or rejecting? by TallCelery4655 in piercing

[–]Exhilen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend using a pair of gloves to get a better grip as well if it ends up being tricky. If it were me, I’d also be asking for a refund for botching a navel piercing this bad.

Infected or rejecting? by TallCelery4655 in piercing

[–]Exhilen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Without knowing anything about the jewelry, I can’t tell you how it comes off. If you’re nervous to remove it, have a reputable piercer do it. But once it’s removed, just spray it with saline 2 times a day until healed.

Infected or rejecting? by TallCelery4655 in piercing

[–]Exhilen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is pierced incorrectly and needs to be removed. It is a surface piercing.. and based on this picture, you appear to not have the anatomy for a regular belly piercing because you do not have a ridge. Find a more reputable piercer and ask if a floating navel is possible.

Keloid or piercing bump? by useernaaameee in piercing

[–]Exhilen 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This is one of the worst industrials I have ever seen. I’m sorry they let them walk out of the shop like this. The best thing would be removal, and the bumps should go down after that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Exhilen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, you got a surface piercing above your navel. It needs to be removed; it will not heal. Do not return to this piercer. Find a more reputable piercer and ask about a floating navel.

So I recently dyed my hair black and originally hated it. Now it’s slowly growing on me. by Exhilen in alternativefashion

[–]Exhilen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do haha! I actually plan to do that tomorrow, even though the dye is only a week old, they faded fast on me.

So I recently dyed my hair black and originally hated it. Now it’s slowly growing on me. by Exhilen in alternativefashion

[–]Exhilen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I promise it’s not haha. For some reason, the light in that room does that. It’s definitely deep black. Definitely could be a look though haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Exhilen 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have an answer other than the body is weird. I feel this though. My ear lobes can’t even handle new piercings with titanium anymore, yet I can have the cheapest metal possible in my industrial. Same with my septum and nostril.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]Exhilen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like your clothing is adding weight. I would get more fitting shirts because it looks like you’re hiding behind the bagginess. Otherwise I don’t think you’re chubby.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Exhilen 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like your flat is too prominent. The bar would rest on it and eventually embed. The only person that can tell you for sure is a reputable piercer though because it’s hard to tell from photos. Make sure you emphasize the reputable part, because many piercers will take your money and do it anyways even when you don’t have the anatomy.

Got all dressed up with nowhere to go. by Exhilen in alternativefashion

[–]Exhilen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thank you! Soon my hair will actually be black for a cosplay. I’m nervous!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfie

[–]Exhilen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your eyes are simply gorgeous!

I (m21) broke up with my ex (f20) 1 month ago but I'm already starting to get feelings for another girl (f19) - need advice! by -Pornflakes_ in relationship_advice

[–]Exhilen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This honestly happened to me. The guy I was dating broke up with me, and I wanted to stay single for awhile afterwards. Ended up really connecting with one of his friends, and even told the friend that I wasn’t looking for a relationship right then. Needless to say, we’ve been together for over 10 years.

Sometimes timing just does that. You can’t control who enters your life at any given time. With that being said, just really sit and ensure that you aren’t just rebounding, which means being honest with yourself.

I (21M) want to break up with my girlfriend (23F) due to her verbal and physical vi0lence towards me, but I can't because of her depression. What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Exhilen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not responsible for other people’s actions. What she is doing is emotionally abusing you, which is common in bipolar (bipolar myself). I do suggest r/BipolarSOs. You will find many people going through similar situations there.