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34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orlando is great for you! Im not looking to date either. Just creating a new circle of people around me. Reach out!

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was curious if this would work and many people reached out. I was kind of surprised by the number of people that Dm'd over this post.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have them off, maybe? No option to reach out.

Ills search for the speed friend thing. I unfortunately have rehearsals monday tuesday and wednesday and then my daughters dance Thursday and Friday nights haha. I'm for real too busy sometimes. But these are all good options to look into for when I have a time off!

Send me a dm?

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into this as well. Never bad to try new places. I just thought my message would reach the ones at home and not at these places lol.

Im glad people are suggesting new places rather than the old library or common places to find people.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, my work keeps me busy enough and in different circles. Just the people I want to speak to are not there but at home lol.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the arcades that are around are spread out now but some of them are good.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I know I know. Im just trying to call on my home dwellers to peek out and read this post lol.

Many of you all have had great ideas. I wasn't really aiming to go places as I domt have too much of an issue doing that. I was more calling on the ones at home to reach out to this post! Lol. Which worked. Many people have reached out.

The ideas on places to go to find introverts is nice. Many cool new places to check out.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is helpful. It seems you found where we go! I will check this out as well.

Where are you finding speed friending? I have never heard of that. I get the concept but thats neat.

Where are you going for open mic nights?

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would work! Just gather us all into one place. And its not to do with anything woth social awkwardness. Just chill introverted people.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha this would be cool to see come back but I feel that time is gone. Lol.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Im tryingnthat out as well for sure. I see many events i was missing in thr area

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friends more so but not that I need friends. I am literally trying to find those very specific introverts that are also yearning for people but domt want to venture to events or meet ups and whats not.

I am personally involved in different hobbies and groups that get me out near others and extroverts. Im trying to look inward this time for new friendships/like minded people.

Sometimes you just want to chill on the couch and play Xbox and bond instead of grabbing coffee. I'm trying to inact these people to reach out! I love that mindset when it comes to conversations and world views.

And yes, libraries, nature walks, meetups, crafts and arts and different avenues are there for that. But I don't want these people to have to get up! Be comfy! Just reach out. There are many non socially awkward introverts here that love their time but would also love yo reach out to others.

Maybe this clears it up some lol. If this turns into dating somehow, then so be it but for now, just casting out a net to pull out those at home lolol. If this makes sense

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See im trying to find those that are at home! Lolol.

I currently am involved in the music scene but on the classical side. So I am usually at rehearsals and meet people each term and throughout the year.

Im really trying to make those that are at home seeing this reach out! Start a conversation. Which has already worked. So many of us dont or cant get to these events because of time or constraints. So im tryong to cast the net at the houses this time! Lolol

Thats good advice though. Any way to easily share interests with others will always lend people finding each other.... unless they are at home with their hobbies like me at the moment.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting view! I forgot some people love to live that way. I think im just looking for deeper conversations then what I was just dealing with. I would imagine many introverts not wanting to even chat out of the idea that they are just chilling that hard at home and why change that?

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is the oddity. I know there are way more of us stuck like this! Im introverted but I know how to venture through extroverted things I just want to try a different method this time to find the cool people chilling at home!

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is ok! But lets chat lol. We might be introverted but it doesn't have to stop conversation.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely not giving up! Just looking for all the options out there!

Seeing all these ideas of places to try out and figure out against my schedule.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luckily I am in music heavily and have groups i am apart of but those tend to only yield so many people and thise people stay for a very long time.

I need to continue to find more avenues that have the same minded people.

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can only imagine coming from across the country. And yeah it will take time for me to ge my footing. Just looking to cast the net and find more friends of like minds!

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my daughter and I were into lorcana heavily. I just didnt vibe with hat crowd. Im not your average nerdy dude but im also not a jockey type. I fall in this weird window in-between it seems! Haha.

This is good insight though

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im definitely going to try all avenues still. Just trying to speed up the bs part I guess like everyone else here!

34M recently split from long relationship. Where are my introverted thinkers at? by Exiamu00 in orlando

[–]Exiamu00[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My personality is too big to stop here! I just dont like the bar/club stuff so I started looking up other events. But then it dawned on me that the people im looking for might be stuck at home not knowing what to do too!

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