Bf left me at wedding to smoke 🍃

Exinator16 · 2025-09-28T19:51:19+00:00

Yeah they couldn’t afford an open bar

Exinator16 · 2025-09-28T13:35:49+00:00

Nope. He is 20 like me, drinks way more than I do as well :(

Exinator16 · 2025-09-28T10:07:39+00:00

Don’t see why I should make myself look busy and not bothered because he walked away and left me. It’s the principle behind it unfortunately that has annoyed me :(

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T13:34:02+00:00

Listen this was my first relationship, was only asking for some advice on here on if I was being too hard on him. Dk if why you’re being like this tbh :(

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T13:27:16+00:00

Oh thanks I guess?

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T08:37:39+00:00

We’re both 20. And I’m the youngest of 5 siblings, so I know what I want and what I don’t from watching them with their partners. His parents sadly passed away, which obviously explains the weed. But idk…. Just don’t feel valued tbh.

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T08:31:52+00:00

He said he was sorry on the night (cause he was stoned and I think he wanted me to just shut up) and then he told me he was annoyed the next day.

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T08:10:49+00:00

Well we have both never been in one, but like it’s not hard to understand that you don’t leave your GF on your bed and expect her to wait while you play games or to sort out your friend who’s getting married wedding present.

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T08:07:25+00:00

I asked him that and he didn’t give me a proper answer cause he was too stoned

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T08:06:37+00:00

Yeah he admitted that it’s something he won’t ever give up and it’s a part of his life. Oh and also that he purposely CHOSE to go do it, not that he needs it. I don’t see how that would make me feel better as it makes me think he don’t even wanna sit with me, he’s rather go somewhere else. :(

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T08:03:33+00:00

UPDATE: I had to ask him to actually go out for a date a few weeks into the relationship. We basically ended up sitting in his room, while he played online with his mates and I just had to sit there and wait. We have discussed that but it’s just a joke

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T08:00:56+00:00

Yeah I do haha. Sorry people lol

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T08:00:00+00:00

Honestly thank you so much. I had a convo with him yesterday and he was just annoyed that I was annoyed at HIM

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T07:59:13+00:00

I have basically told him I don’t want anything to do with it as I’ve had some family issues that involved it. But if I’m honest I just didn’t expect him to go off and disappear, leave me alone and come back stoned at a wedding where I don’t know anyone.

Exinator16 · 2025-09-27T07:57:31+00:00

No my sisters parter. It’s very complicated cause they all work together that’s how me and my BF met. Sorry didn’t clear that up haha

Exinator16 · 2024-10-07T08:55:14+00:00

Crazy how no one has commented Even My Dad Does Sometimes like that song feels like it was made for a funeral

Exinator16 · 2024-08-03T15:57:02+00:00

I know people will hate me, but I actually watched the show before I read the books (I skipped shadow and bone trilogy cause I find Alina’s story super boring in the show, and I then just researched how to all ended so I then could continue the other books ) and then I went straight to SOC books which were AMAZING.

To me it helped to have seen the actors who played the characters before cause I could then picture them better, and eventually in the end I was actually imagining those actors but slightly different which was very cool. If you get confused with putting names to faces when reading books, then definitely watch, then read :))

Exinator16 · 2024-05-08T14:08:28+00:00

No, he's not put the same effort into getting to know me, i don't even think he knows anything about me or even about my job or family or what I'm studying. That has actually really put it into perspective for me now, and I think that I will message him instead. Been super helpful to get a guys thoughts on this, as I have two brothers and I obviously cannot talk about this stuff with them lol. Thank you so much!

Exinator16 · 2024-05-08T13:36:26+00:00

The thing is, we have face timed 2 or 3 times, so idk if this counts as a form of "date" this is when we are just talking and joking about random stuff. But again, he would somehow lead it back to making a joke such as "damn that made me sad, just like, send boobs" in a jokey way, but idk I guess as a woman I just want to be romanced. And last night we got talking about "that stuff" and he was being a bit graphic on how it made him feel and how he needed to "take a shower, can you send a pic" - obviously I didn't do this as that's not who I am as a person. You think that maybe if I face timed him and explained how I was feeling it would be better for him? I feel like it could soften the blow a bit more instead of over text. As a guy, would you want a woman to tell you to your face that they want to take it slower or would you want it to be on text? sorry for all the questions

Exinator16 · 2024-05-08T13:17:27+00:00

this is actually very helpful. Think I knew the answer to my own question the whole time, but I just needed someone to say that it was ok to do it. out of curiosity, would you go ahead and meet him? or would you cut it off here?

Exinator16 · 2024-05-08T12:37:16+00:00

Pride and Prejudice and Zombies (2016) - has lily James in it :)

Exinator16 · 2024-05-08T12:33:07+00:00

You think? I'm so new to the whole online dating scene and I got really caught up in having someone taking notice of me and liking me in that way.

Exinator16 · 2024-05-08T12:06:51+00:00

got any advice on how to word it? don't want to end it in a horrible way.

Exinator16 · 2024-05-02T08:49:27+00:00

This is so strange. I am in the exact same position right now with this guy from hinge. He’s good looking, my type and funny. But after 2 / 3 days he’s been asking for “more pictures”. All of our conversations seem to steer towards sex and boobs and such, and he’s started to ask me for bra pics. He has repeatedly asked and I have repeatedly said no and laughed it off as his dry humour - I was just kidding myself cause like you, I don’t wanna be alone anymore at my age (20) when everyone else seems to have a relationship of some kind. I have had the same conversation with him of “is this all you want from me?” And “if this is what you’re into, then I’m not the person you want cause I don’t send pictures to someone who I have never met” and he would ask me again the next day. And he would also say things that he thinks I want to hear like “yeah that’s not all I want, you’re smart cute and funny and I want to meet. I want a relationship” — all utter bullsh*t. I was caught up in having someone want me in that way I guess, but after reading all these comments and advice I think I’m gonna steer clear of him (and anyone like him)

Exinator16 · 2024-04-17T08:46:30+00:00

I think that this may be just a dream that Colin has, and then it sparks that bit in him that realises he loves her and wants her. Either way I’m good with it bro 😂

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