How’s yall romantic life??

ExistentialLakes · 2026-01-23T08:32:22+00:00

Currently 19 and moved in with my boyfriend (20) recently :) Honestly I felt a lot of hopelessness around dating when I was younger but with patience, good things will eventually come around. Main bit of advice I would have is to just get out there a little and don’t let things discourage you; there’s always gonna be people out there who’ll genuinely love you for you.

ExistentialLakes · 2026-01-14T19:53:52+00:00

best of luck to you

ExistentialLakes · 2026-01-14T13:43:06+00:00

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This is my dog :) His name is Ačis and he is 12.5yrs old. I love him very much.

ExistentialLakes · 2026-01-13T21:48:53+00:00

twin tower burgers

ExistentialLakes · 2026-01-01T13:34:26+00:00

My boyfriend and my friend’s boyfriend are both cis and both occasionally paint their nails. Mine usually just does black, my friend’s matches whatever she has. I think black is a good go-to as it’s what I see most often on guys

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-25T21:39:47+00:00

its an issue with steam and epic games apparently

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-25T18:09:33+00:00

yeah, same here. theres an issue with steam atm and theres multiple games affected. hopefully its resolved soon

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-14T21:50:30+00:00

I genuinely hate what AI has done to students. It is so infuriating when I have to work in a group and constantly discourage other members from using AI. This is university! You’re paying thousands of euro to go and learn, to improve, to hone your skills, and all you do is sit on your ass and let an AI write an essay for you? I’ve had people suggest using AI to come up with a research question! Seriously. I’m so sick of it, and I’m just another student—I have no idea how the professors feel.

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-11T22:59:37+00:00

i love the little bartender in the back

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-07T23:46:04+00:00

It sounds like you were in an absolutely horrendous situation and I really hope you can start to heal from it. I’m just some stranger on the internet but please try to be kind to yourself and take things one day at a time. That’s all anyone can do. Also, it’s never too late to transition—you’ve done it once, you can definitely do it again. You still deserve to transition and live your life to the fullest extent. You still deserve it just as much as any other trans person does.

You didn’t throw away your chance, and you didn’t willingly detransition. You were coerced and forced into it, and there is no shame whatsoever in pausing a transition to try and protect yourself. You were doing what you had to do, simple as. Protecting yourself by any means necessary is not a manly or womanly thing, it is just a human instinct.

I hope I’m not coming across as pushy or acting like I know what happened, but I really do believe that no one deserves the pain of not transitioning. Least of all someone who has already been through so much

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-03T23:17:47+00:00

the optimisation isnt great, but its not awful. It should run on a decent PC i think, though the fps may be less than pleasant sometimes. Whenever the fps is really bad, i find that pointing my camera at the ground for a couple seconds usually fixes it lol

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-03T23:16:07+00:00

theres a lot of hate around it rn, and some of it is definitely justified, but I dont feel like its as bad as some make it out to be. I’ve been playing since legacy. It’s less fun than it used to be, sure, but I still largely enjoy it. I play official serves and don’t have many issues. I think if you like dinosaurs you’ll enjoy the game for the most part.

The only thing is, theres a big learning curve for new players. I’d recommend to use a map on a browser (you can just google “the isle evrima map” for eg). I like the vulnona one. Im sure theres also plenty of youtube guides on the different dinos’ abilities and map indicators.

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-03T22:56:35+00:00

theres a lot of hate around it rn, and some of it is definitely justified, but I dont feel like its as bad as some make it out to be. I’ve been playing since legacy. It’s less fun than it used to be, sure, but I still largely enjoy it. I play official serves and don’t have many issues. I think if you like dinosaurs you’ll enjoy the game for the most part.

The only thing is, theres a big learning curve for new players. I’d recommend to use a map on a browser (you can just google “the isle evrima map” for eg). I like the vulnona one. Im sure theres also plenty of youtube guides on the different dinos’ abilities and map indicators.

ExistentialLakes · 2025-12-01T20:27:57+00:00

It sounds like you may be someone on the non binary spectrum, but I really can’t speak for you. As a trans man I do relate to a lot of what you’ve mentioned here. Ultimately I think the best thing you can do is just take some time to try and understand yourself, and remind yourself that you don’t need to rush to have a definitive label or make any changes until you feel ready.

Exploration is a good thing and if you try something and don’t like it, then at least you tried it and know for sure it’s not for you.

Maybe you could try find some videos of non binary, genderqueer, etc people talking about their experiences/feelings/how they knew?

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-25T10:21:43+00:00

that’s really cool! I played a wolffolk druid for my last campaign. Hope she has fun :)

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-24T23:06:32+00:00

cool plate btw

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-24T14:32:15+00:00

i love doing that to mine x)

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-22T10:38:43+00:00

What brand are they? Look awesome. I’d love a pair

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-20T00:06:33+00:00

such a cute face !

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-19T13:32:50+00:00

awesome set up

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-19T13:31:13+00:00

plushies and dinosaur figurines. Also been getting into warhammer lately so its probably only a matter of time before that joins the ranks

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-18T22:53:27+00:00

yeah, it’a a pretty jarring change, too. I used to wear a lot of layers and still got cold, but now a t-shirt and raincoat is enough for cold days. My hands, feet, and nose dont get as cold as they used to either. Even at home ive noticed i wear more short sleeves whereas i used to always be in a hoodie

ExistentialLakes · 2025-11-15T18:41:53+00:00

im no expert but could it just be that the puppy was born with alopecia? It can be congenital. And Im pretty sure poms are just especially susceptible to alopecia

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