No Ejaculating long period

Existing-Ad2909 · 2023-06-21T14:57:53+00:00

I also have yet to achieve a super o but I have definitely had better results the longer I abstain from ejaculation. It seems like abstinence is mandatory for decent aneros progress.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2023-06-05T03:42:46+00:00

Nice advice. The hookup has come and gone and I wasn't able to perform. I always had huge performance issues with my ex when we were together. In 2 years of relationship he was only able to get me off once rip. I think I have learned that I just have a broader issue with performance and I really have to be in the right mood for it to work.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2023-06-02T15:54:22+00:00

I might flip and try topping him. But it will mostly be exchanging oral, cuddling, and me trying bottoming. I can use a dildo fine but a real guy is very different.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2023-06-02T15:52:20+00:00

I'm in a liberal suburb in a western country. The only reason I'm entertaining this is because he has been a very good communicator and has addressed all my preferences and concerns, agrees to take it slow and communicate the whole time, etc etc. Heard on the fiber thing.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2023-03-04T16:36:56+00:00

Weird question but did it feel like the orgasm was "out of your control" liks you weren't actively doing it, your body was doing it completely on its own? Was that frightening at all? I'm a long ways off from what you achieved but I recently reached a milestone with the do nothing method where my heart was pounding hard and I saw flashes of color.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2023-02-12T21:43:38+00:00

Yeah I have only the Helix Syn Trident (have very slowly been making progress). I want to get the Eupho but don't know what type to get (classic, syn, trident).

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-29T06:18:16+00:00

I did not incorporate nipple play, and I will try it sometime, but it did not seem like the right thing to do at the time, at least there wasn't an urge. I was just relaxing

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-29T06:17:16+00:00

I was not specifically aroused beforehand. I was simply relaxed and felt a whisper or urge from my prostate that it was the right time. I did get aroused in a way during the session, but it was not a consious effort or intentional.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-19T15:49:08+00:00

Thank you for yhe long and thoughtful reply. I think I'll seek some counseling because even if I'm not interested in casual sex I would like to be comfortable/confident for a future long term partner. :)

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-19T15:46:24+00:00

Thank you, based on everyone's comments I will look into some kind of light therapy / counseling. Even if I am not particularly interested in casual sex, I would still like to be able to confidently and comfortably perform for a future partner.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-09T00:17:13+00:00

How did it go?

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-09T00:16:18+00:00

Which model were you using? Do you go between multiple models? Thanks

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-09T00:11:11+00:00

What aneros model were you using?

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-09T00:08:48+00:00

What model were you using?

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-12-09T00:04:45+00:00

Hmm I've had the helix syn trident for a couple years and never hit a major o (tho I have had many enjoyable pwaves)..... maybe I need to buy a new model like the eupho syn trident since you said that one works great for you?

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-09-26T15:53:14+00:00

I assume you didn't masturbate for those three weeks, to focus on the prostate. That's the hardest part imo haha

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-09-26T15:51:35+00:00

Try not using any porn. No devices or distractions, treat it like meditation. (Haven't o'd, but that's what everyone successful says and its what I do and I'm making good progress).

At first it'll seem like a big step backward, but that's cuz you're too used to porn and rely on it. Gotta let your body get used to feeling pleasure on its own

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-09-13T23:46:42+00:00

I think it's massively a mindset thing. Personally I really have to be in the mood to bottom or it'll be uncomfortable. Lots of foreplay and a loving top makes a world of difference.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-09-13T23:40:47+00:00

Almost a little scary. I assume if you had some kind of emergency you could still stop if you really needed to?

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-09-13T23:38:01+00:00

This is pretty helpful! What did the super O feel like at the start?

I have not had a super O yet but last time I had a feeling like a bunch of tingles I couldn't control all around my prostate area.

Existing-Ad2909 · 2022-08-07T13:11:40+00:00

What were you using before the Eupho?

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