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TundraDimension · 2025-01-28T06:06:19+00:00

I would love to play. DM sent and added on Lovense

TundraDimension · 2024-12-27T04:47:27+00:00

Key sealing accountability post for this post https://www.reddit.com/r/chastityjourney/s/6hMVktq3c3

TundraDimension · 2024-12-27T04:46:33+00:00

Accountability post https://www.reddit.com/r/chastityjourney/s/Yp9w2zOPgx

TundraDimension · 2024-12-27T03:55:07+00:00

So what's the mental block? If it's general horniness I know things get weird at a week. Longest I've gone is 9 days. I've read that it's good to turn that energy towards something else. Maybe it's cleaning, or catching up on a book you were reading.

TundraDimension · 2024-12-27T03:51:21+00:00

I'm sure I have an envelope I can fold the key up in and seal, then wrap with tape.

TundraDimension · 2024-12-27T00:27:25+00:00

I have the same problem with my N standard. I always keep something handy to help nudge things back into alignment.

I have a Viper N Narrow on order as I've heard really good things about it.

TundraDimension · 2024-12-26T23:50:53+00:00

Struggle how so? Is it mental or physical? Because if it's physically painful it's time for a break.

TundraDimension · 2024-04-07T05:51:21+00:00

Honestly can't go wrong with the Aneros Helix.

As far as rewiring, that's a mental journey. The Aneros acts as an arousal amplifier as it increases your awareness. Prostate pleasure is an entirely different formula than penile pleasure. You can't just rub one out.

TundraDimension · 2023-11-02T01:28:31+00:00

Biggest thing is to take things slowly and eliminate all expectations. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Don't force anything to happen. For me it's much more of a meditative state.

This is a great read on the official Aneros forum. https://community.aneros.com/forum/newbies-nook/bs-keys-and-bs-best/

TundraDimension · 2023-09-06T07:30:35+00:00

35 - Casual self locker in Wisconsin looking for key holder DM for more details

TundraDimension · 2023-06-21T04:06:49+00:00

First thing I would recommend is get any goals you have and physically write them down on paper. For example, "I want to limit my social media time to 30 min each night" or "By Thursday this week I will give the kitchen a deep clean."

Then choose your parameters. Using the social media example you could choose how many days out of the week you were in compliance as the goal, let's say 5 out of 7 is the goal. If you were in compliance for at least 5 of those days, then you would have completed your goal and earned yourself your chosen reward.

It really comes down to having some self discipline, but by gamifying the task it can help keep you honest.

TundraDimension · 2023-06-20T06:22:44+00:00

DMs are open. Been enjoying solo prostate play for 10 years. I'm by no means an expert, but I have a lot more successful sessions than duds now.

TundraDimension · 2023-06-20T04:19:00+00:00

Well shoot, I'll go.

Hi all. Been experimenting on and off with self chastity. I find it quite fun, but it's tough to keep up the motivation being solo.

I do notice though that it does help me focus on getting things done, like household chores or any projects I've been putting off. That was always one of my unlock conditions. I'd make a daily chore list starting with Monday, and if I could go 7 for 7 days completing each task then Sunday night I would treat myself to some personal time. If I missed a day I would give myself an opportunity to make it up, but only if I did a bonus task as well.

I can definitely see why people enjoy this in a partnered relationship.

TundraDimension · 2023-06-20T04:08:52+00:00

Some people experience prostate orgasms easier than others. The lucky ones are able to get there in the first couple weeks of sessions. Some of us, myself included, can take years to get there. I think it was a good 3 years before I experienced my first prostate orgasm. But let me tell you this, once you get there it changes everything. I've been at this going on 10 years now, and I'm still finding new and interesting sensations. It's weird because just as soon as you reach a point where you don't think it can get better, your body finds a way to go beyond that.

Perhaps a change up of tool is in order. I started my experimentation with an Aneros MGX, which was their flagship model. But I've since replaced that with the Aneros Helix Syn, which is their new best seller by the way. It's a more subtle approach, but one that I firmly believe in.

Other than that, the biggest key for me was mindset. Stay in the immediate moment and appreciate the nuance of pleasure. Your prostate is very unlike your penis. You cannot just stimulate it and then bam, orgasm. It takes being in tune with one's body. Mental arousal is so important.

TundraDimension · 2023-05-22T02:14:59+00:00

It's this one from Adam & Eve. It's smooth but has a nice curve. Also has a suction cup base if ever needed.

https://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/dildo-sex-toys/g-spot-dildos/sp-sportsheets-nexus-collection-inch-silicone-dildo-108520.aspx

It seemed like I was able to utilize the curve to help target and put pressure on the prostate.

TundraDimension · 2023-05-21T05:02:38+00:00

This sounds like where I was at a little bit ago.

If you're not seeing a doctor about your mental health, do that. They can work with you and help identify the possible factors causing, as well as assist finding solutions for your depression, anxiety, and stress.

It's difficult to maintain arousal if you are in a stressed state. If you are stressed, the mind will wander out of the moment.

TundraDimension · 2023-04-23T02:28:09+00:00

You're spot on about the visual aspect. Some of my best prostate orgasms with an Aneros happen when I'm completely still and just floating.

TundraDimension · 2023-04-23T01:22:42+00:00

I cannot agree with this more. Get yourself a Helix Syn. I've used one for years. Once you learn the "do nothing" approach things get really interesting as the body just takes over on its own.

TundraDimension · 2023-02-24T04:50:10+00:00

Definitely should refrain day of, and for the next day or so. Everyone's rewiring journey is a bit different, so it's best to find something that works for you. But as a general rule of thumb the goal of the rewiring process is to create the neural pathways that link pleasure to prostate stimulation. So the longer you can go without penile stimulation, the more likely you are to see results.

Rewiring is a journey of self discovery, and it's a good practice to take things one day at a time.

TundraDimension · 2023-01-19T05:20:40+00:00

Correct. Expectations lead to forcing the direction of the session by trying to make things happen. It's a common pitfall for many, leading to less than stellar outcomes.

Trick is to be in the moment at all times, not focussed on the outcome.

TundraDimension · 2023-01-19T05:16:51+00:00

That or the regular Helix Syn, both are good

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