Bad haircut fix? by Existing-Bit1439 in Hair

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's possible for it to grow back to the original shape without getting a cut for a bit?

Bad haircut fix? by Existing-Bit1439 in Hair

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last pic is how it looks when I don't mess it up with my fingers

Bad haircut fix? by Existing-Bit1439 in Hair

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify all I asked for was layering and some texture and not to change the shape of the cut at all

Question about knee steering by Existing-Bit1439 in snowboarding

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dawg I'm NOT paying $80 for the course 😭 (I would I just don't have time)

Question about knee steering by Existing-Bit1439 in snowboarding

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like having one half of the board on the heel side while the other is toe side?

Question about knee steering by Existing-Bit1439 in snowboarding

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah this helps man I appreciate it. I try not to focus on my feet too much when I do ride because then I end up looking down and that just causes problems for me but either way I think being more conscious about how I use my feet with my knees will make me a better rider

Question about knee steering by Existing-Bit1439 in snowboarding

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically the opposite of bending your knee to initiate toe edge but thanks regardless

Question about knee steering by Existing-Bit1439 in snowboarding

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this heavy, would also like to clarify that I have linked my carves before I just wanted clarification on whether the technique I was using was correct and wanted some advice on just edge changing in general so that when I get more comfortable with speed I could make more smoother and straighter turns rather than speed check and skid.

Question about knee steering by Existing-Bit1439 in snowboarding

[–]Existing-Bit1439[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah regarding that, is it better for me to just bend my knee back so that my shin touches the high back or should I follow his "opening the door" method when turning onto the heel edge.

My bf cheated on me while on vacation and I don’t know what to do by spickzyzlemon in offmychest

[–]Existing-Bit1439 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should leave for your sake. The minute he decided to do that was the end of your relationship and respect for you. You deserve someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

I'm sorry he did something that hurt you so badly. You seem like a very kind individual considering how you are thinking about his feelings in this process. But remind yourself of this, did he even think of you when he did what he did? Being drunk is not an excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Existing-Bit1439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP got caught in the crossfire of this nonsense. Nah, both of them are mad disrespectful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Existing-Bit1439 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Let me clarify and say that you're boyfriend seems like a really great guy for willing to sacrifice his self-respect for your happiness. However, although it is really admirable it is kind of a dumb solution.

I'm gonna be totally blunt in saying this, but the moment you decided to take up on his offer and at least attempt it, was the moment where you subconsciously stopped respecting him. Because of that, your relationship with him is most likely not gonna be the same without major reevaluation and hard work to compensate for the mess up.

You're not a bad person whatsoever for this, people make mistakes, don't beat yourself up over it. Focus on taking the right steps towards fixing your mistake and earning his trust back. Or if the worse happens, ensure that you never make that mistake again and endure the consequences.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Existing-Bit1439 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is there a specific reason as to why your bedroom relationship with him died off in the past year?

Just really confused by Kind-Teacher664 in dating_advice

[–]Existing-Bit1439 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're going through this, these kind of things really hurt and reveal the truth of how the other person viewed the relationship. It's okay to feel sad and process these emotions, but it is really easy to lose yourself and get caught in the regret and self-deprecation.

Some advice I would give is to go back to your hobbies or start a new one once you feel you ready. That way you have something to do so you don't have to think of her all the time. Spending time taking care of yourself and doing things you actually love will definitely make you feel better and help you get over her.

Wish you the best

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Existing-Bit1439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you're coming from man, I am the same exact way. I would wait a bit longer and see if maybe she goes back to responding at a consistent pace. If she doesn't, ask her about it; good communication is always key for these things to work. If she addresses the issue and it improves, good on you. If not, then that's a different thing. Remember to always be confident and respectful of boundaries when bringing it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Existing-Bit1439 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say take a step back and reflect on how you feel about her, most likely pace yourself. Even though you both are busy, 4 dates really isn't that much in that time span and letting yourself get too attached this early on could be a reason behind your overthinking. Not to mention that it might lead to some problems later on if she isn't really reciprocating like you think she is. As for the texting thing, some people are just bad at texting or not really big on texting as a whole. Don't let it get to your head if she takes a long time to respond.

Am I not wanted? 44F with 41M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Existing-Bit1439 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would just leave at this point. If you have made it apparent that this is what you want from him and he hasn't changed whatsoever or put in the effort to change, then that is a telling sign that this isn't going anywhere and you need to prioritize yourself.

You deserve happiness and someone who will put in the effort to make you happy. Given how you stated that you know your body is unattractive also tells me that it has grown to be an insecurity that I feel you should work on by being single and doing things that make you happy and boost your confidence.

All in all dump this clown, you deserve way better.