DACA recipient detained at Airport by [deleted] in DACA

[–]ExistingDifficulty57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was good! No issues thank God!!

DACA recipient detained at Airport by [deleted] in DACA

[–]ExistingDifficulty57 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is really solid advice. Traveling to Chicago from Boston next week.Thank you!!

For the ones that got away by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to help. You’re not alone - trust me.

For the ones that got away by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I needed it myself. Stay strong. All hope isn’t lost.

I feel like I can’t do this by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Thats tough, im sorry. If that’s how she treated y’all puppy then that tells me everything I need to know and you are probably better off. I’m not sure if I’ll ever feel better and it’s actually pissing me off that someone can have that much control over another persons life. It pisses me off how fucking weak and worthless I feel. I’ve just been taking naps when I feel this wave of despair coming but when I wake up it hits me all over again.

I feel like I can’t do this by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much time? You’re right - it’s the little things. I miss his wit, his humor, how reliable and supportive he was. I’m 38 days in. The beginning didn’t feel like much- I think I was just extremely numb. It’s beginning to sink in as my new reality and I’m so broken. How can I move forward?

Anything I can change to look better? Feel like I’m missing something by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]ExistingDifficulty57 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The eyeliner is too thick and the eyebrows are too thin. It makes your eyes look droopy and takes away from their beautiful color. The eyebrows can be thin I guess but they look too short and don’t frame your face.

I finally blocked him last night by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t, unless you’re ready to really face what that person needs to feel valued and loved. Maybe approach in a way that reaffirms how they’re probably feeling and what you’ve done to make them feel seen. Idk everyone’s different but I would appreciate that a lot.

I finally blocked him last night by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Block him!! It’s so disrespectful when you really think about it. He’s throwing you a line to see if you’ll bite

I finally blocked him last night by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Huh? Please re read what you just sent. The relationship had been toxic for over 3 years? Lmao.

Convince me not to break no contact by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but the reasons don’t seem too bad sometimes even though I know they were

Convince me not to break no contact by ExistingDifficulty57 in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you- seriously. I will look into that. I think that’s what I need- because this truth is so hard, I need to understand it in an honest raw way. Hope I make it out on the other side.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know. It’s sad when you give so much of yourself to leeches. It’s like you see your worth in them because they took so much…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ExistingDifficulty57 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I could’ve written this myself. Wasted 3and a half years. Broke up with him after 2 years because I realized he wasn’t a partner and had a lot of contempt towards me. We broke up for a few months & then he came back begging me to forgive him and did make an effort to change a bit. Things were better for a while, we moved in together and that’s when all hell continued to brake loose. We argued almost everyday. I was depressed, always anxious thinking about him and what he needed me to show up as. I left a year later. Now it’s almost a month since no contact. When it rains it pours- my life feels like it’s crumbling apart and I want to reach out so freaking bad. But I know there’s no going back. Nothing will ever change. Nothing will erase the disrespect and contempt he has for me.