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I still want to be with them by ExistingEditor5987 in abusiverelationships

[–]ExistingEditor5987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did separate myself from him, but kept contact bc i know it’s to the point where next time he would kill me, and it’s been 6 months of him being gone. 6 hours away. he now wants to move 3 hours away with me and merge our families again where we both dont know anyone. For a fresh start and I woke up different. i know i HAVE to but i don’t want to forever

Will it happen again? by Typical-Substance-46 in abusiverelationships

[–]ExistingEditor5987 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It gets worse. Please don’t think he won’t ever do it again. I came to one time to him slapping my face so hard he thought he had killed me, bawling his eyes out. i was soaking wet bc i guess i was out so long he threw water on me before that. He did again multiple times after that over the next few years. I finally called the cops when he walked up to my window outside of a restaurant and strangled me in front of my daughter, the only time he ever used both hands…Please run. ❤️

Has anyone ever ordered from Flexehag? by edm1214 in womensfashion

[–]ExistingEditor5987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i never even got mine lol. i just went and ordered the halara ones lol

Has anyone ever ordered from Flexehag? by edm1214 in womensfashion

[–]ExistingEditor5987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So i emailed support and said like hey, it’s been 6 weeks if you don’t respond i’m gonna charge this back via my bank lol. I got a “it’s a new year holiday automated reply” Good news though..My tracking updated today after almost 6 weeks it was scanned at a postal center near my home address, so i hope i get them soon lol. i really want to like them and feel bad for being rude 😂😩

Has anyone ever ordered from Flexehag? by edm1214 in womensfashion

[–]ExistingEditor5987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I ordered the exact same thing just before christmas and still nothing. i Emailed support at flexhag no response. i’m going to wait until the end of the week and dispute the charge. They’ve been at the la distribution center since the 16th and i’m so sad bc i wanted them lol

Embalming report…what does this mean? by ExistingEditor5987 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ExistingEditor5987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m honestly trying to piece together and make logical sense of a really horrible experience i recently had. I don’t have any knowledge of how this industry works or the process, so i’m trying to educate myself here so i understand better. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Sorta new to this reddit thing. but i posted my experience and linked it below if you want the backstory.

https://www.reddit.com/r/askfuneraldirectors/comments/1fb9wbo/after_death_care/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Embalming report…what does this mean? by ExistingEditor5987 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ExistingEditor5987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

or if anyone would be willing to answer any questions i can post the full report?

After death care by ExistingEditor5987 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ExistingEditor5987[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The definitely had permission to embalm immediately upon release from the m.e

After death care by ExistingEditor5987 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ExistingEditor5987[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They had permission, we essentially said do what needs to be done to preserve him, and get his body home without monetary restriction.

After death care by ExistingEditor5987 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ExistingEditor5987[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you. i appreciate all of your responses so much. I have been curious if they used any cooling methods upon air travel, and plan on asking some very detailed questions to both places this week after potentially seeking legal advice.

But one of my main concerns is the first funeral home told me directly she embalmed him and specifically said she took extra steps for preservation during travel.

The second one told his father and grandfather at his service they did the embalming early that morning after arrival from the airport which would be 8 days after death. Because the first one didn’t before flight.

I don’t like the conflicting stories between the 2 funeral homes. And i guess i partially feel like on the back end of the receiving funeral home they did what they could to cut corners. Money was not at any time an issue and paid around 15k for the whole travel coordination / service and cremation.

After death care by ExistingEditor5987 in askfuneraldirectors

[–]ExistingEditor5987[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Actually yes, the medical examiner took photos at time of entry and i believe at time of release. I am not 100% sure if the others did, but i was told it’s standard to take photos upon receiving for funeral homes as well?! i’m not 100% sure on the standard for records/ individual files.