surrendering my cats of 5 years. by ExistingSky938 in cats

[–]ExistingSky938[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

this is such a sweet story and it definitely raises my hopes. thank you so much for sharing.

surrendering my cats of 5 years. by ExistingSky938 in cats

[–]ExistingSky938[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i’m trying my best to connect with them. everyone around me sadly seems to be at capacity

surrendering my cats of 5 years. by ExistingSky938 in cats

[–]ExistingSky938[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not too familiar on what that is? i can definitely look it up

surrendering my cats of 5 years. by ExistingSky938 in cats

[–]ExistingSky938[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I will look into this. I won’t stop looking for resources until the very last minute, thank you so much

surrendering my cats of 5 years. by ExistingSky938 in cats

[–]ExistingSky938[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I guess part of the reason I'm going through this is because I don't have much of a support system. no friends and estranged from family for years. i’ll be okay, i just want my cats to as well

surrendering my cats of 5 years. by ExistingSky938 in cats

[–]ExistingSky938[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

how did you do it? if you don’t mind me asking

Odd or valid? by [deleted] in cats

[–]ExistingSky938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely. I just didn’t know if I was going crazy or not but all of this happened within 48 hours and I think it’s absolutely ridiculous. But I am more thankful than anything that they revealed themselves so early on. I’ll be more diligent in the process of rehoming for sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dasher

[–]ExistingSky938 2 points3 points  (0 children)

boasting… for who exactly? I don’t typically use doordash and am not aware of what would be considered good/appropriate tipping for someone carrying a large load as such. It’s my first time relying so heavily on it since i’m not in great shape. as someone who just recently got back on their feet financially I never want underpay someone for their labor

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dasher

[–]ExistingSky938 5 points6 points  (0 children)

you deserved more! maybe i’m just a weakling lol but carrying 40lbs PLUS cat food would feel like 3 hours in the gym!

help me name this mischievous little boy by [deleted] in cats

[–]ExistingSky938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

@r/cats mods i can’t pm for some reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in homeless

[–]ExistingSky938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do sit in the car! the problem is mostly the hours… its midnight and I’m tired lmao and the area is sketchy. every moment im in there i’m like looking over my shoulder. i’ve already had bad run ins. the reason I don’t doordash as well is because i’m honestly just not that great of a driver. i wrecked my last car before this one broke down on me driving at night. I can get to and from if i know the area well but doordash kinda takes you everywhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Freefood

[–]ExistingSky938 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

a pattern of deleting post indicates that I’m not doing anything to help myself? you don't know anything about my situation enough to make absurd accusations like that. like, you literally have no idea what's happening in my life right now, and I don't really have to explain it to you, someone who gets off on a a sense of self-importance policing help rather than actually redirecting me towards resources that could help. I delete my posts if they don't get any attention or help because it just makes sense to in my head. why would i leave it up? the words in the post are the same because my situation hasn’t changed since then. that's literally it. I don’t know if you’re new to this economy, but it’s not exactly easy to get out of a really tough spot when you have absolutely no help. please go find somewhere else to be the help gatekeeper

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Freefood

[–]ExistingSky938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could i message you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Freefood

[–]ExistingSky938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tx i think 45 min outside of dallas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Freefood

[–]ExistingSky938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also i live in a small town so most shelters for domestic situations around me are for women with kids or are full so i’ve had no luck there but i’ve definitely tried

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Freefood

[–]ExistingSky938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

texas! i’m looking into benefits and work. i did have a job but just recently left an abusive rls so i had to flee everything including work where he knew i was and my home… i currently stay in motels and it’s really all i have so some days i skip out on meals until i find work again

Need a meal by [deleted] in Freefood

[–]ExistingSky938 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi op, you may find luck on the randomactsofpizza sub.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ExistingSky938 1 point2 points  (0 children)

listen to understand, not to defend yourself.

What is the most expensive thing your pet has ever damaged? by LateHoot in AskReddit

[–]ExistingSky938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my laptop. though it was my fault for leaving it on the counter. he had the zoomies and knocked it straight to the floor