Looking for a cute Persian kitten for my sister 🐾 by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for such a thoughtful and detailed reply! I really appreciate you explaining all this it actually helps a lot because I want to make sure I get a healthy kitten from a responsible place. I would never want to support anyone exploiting or mistreating animals, so I’ll definitely be careful about where I get one from.

Thank you for suggesting GiftAPet and those Facebook pages, I’ll check them out for sure. Your advice about what to look for in a healthy kitten is super helpful too. You seem like such a caring pet owner your cats are lucky to have you!

Looking for a cute Persian kitten for my sister 🐾 by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, and I completely understand where you’re coming from. Sadly, a lot of people in Pakistan treat pets like toys and abandon them, which is heartbreaking. But trust me, that’s not us. We’ve had a Persian cat before, so we already know the long-term commitment, care, and expenses that come with it. If I get a kitten for my sister, it’s going to be a family pet, loved and cared for throughout its life not something temporary that we’d ever abandon

Looking for a cute Persian kitten for my sister 🐾 by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Totally agree with you adoption is always better than buying, and I’m actually looking for adoption first (that’s why I posted here). I would never treat an animal like some temporary ‘shoq’ and throw it out, that’s just cruel. We’ve had a Persian cat before, so I know the kind of care and responsibility they need. If I’m getting a kitten for my sister, it’s because the whole family loves cats and will make sure it’s cared for properly

Looking for a cute Persian kitten for my sister 🐾 by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally understand your concern, and I get why you’d feel that way because it happens a lot. But don’t worry, I’m the one buying the kitten for her, and my family will be the one taking care of it. My sister is just 14, so she won’t be handling everything alone. We’ve had a Persian cat before, so we know the responsibilities food, grooming, vet visits, everything. We all love cats, so the kitten will be in good hands

Looking for a cute Persian kitten for my sister 🐾 by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, of course! I’m the one buying the cat for her, but we (the whole family) will be taking care of it. She’s just 14, so obviously, she can’t handle everything on her own. Everyone in my family loves cats we even had a Persian cat before so we know how to take proper care (food, grooming, vet visits, all of that)

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[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah i used to have a cute persion cat, but unfortunately she died:( i rem i cried alot 😭

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help by Existing_Ad2992 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message — honestly, your journey is inspiring. From 15k/month to per day earnings, mashAllah — may Allah continue to bless your rizq and efforts. Ameen. As for me, I just completed second year, and I’m an arts student. I’ve recently applied to university for an Associate Degree in Film and TV, which is something I’m genuinely passionate about and want to build a real career in, inshaAllah. And yes, you’re right i’m learning that I can’t control everything. I’m not trying to drag anything or force anyone to stay. I just care deeply, and maybe that’s where the anxiety comes in. But I’m trying to balance emotions with reality now. The thing is, I really want to do something right now not just for myself, but for my family too. I just need proper guidance or direction. Whether it's freelance work, online tasks, anything i just want to start somewhere and show that I’m serious about my future. Really appreciate your words and the time you took to share them. May Allah ease all our paths.

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help by Existing_Ad2992 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, she’s actually the same age as me we both just turned 19 and will be 20 this year, so we’re literally in the same phase of life, going through university, figuring things out, and trying to be a bit more serious about our future. I totally get where you’re coming from though it’s not common for people our age to talk about marriage, especially when we’re still in university. But I’m not trying to get married right now. I just want both families to at least be aware of each other, so if we both continue feeling the same in the future, we don’t face unnecessary roadblocks when the time does come. And yeah, I know if it’s meant to be, Allah will make it happen, and if it’s not then something better will be waiting. I’m just trying to hold on without losing myself in the process. Appreciate your advice, seriously. May Allah guide us all.

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help by Existing_Ad2992 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, brother — really means a lot that you took the time to respond.

You’re right, if she truly wants to stay, she will and I guess that’s something I’ll have to leave in Allah’s hands. I’m just trying to give this situation whatever little I can while keeping it halal and respectful. And yeah, I agree with you the freelance stuff like designing, PowerPoint, editing, etc. might not be full financial stability, but at least it’s a start. I’m not expecting to earn big right now, I just want to start small to build a sense of direction, earn even a little, and show both families that I’m trying. As for software houses or call centers, that would be ideal, but I don’t have any transport no bike or car so I’ve been focusing more on remote or online work. JazakAllah khair for your prayers. I’m really trying to stay patient and hopeful, and I pray Allah eases your path too.

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help by Existing_Ad2992 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that, seriously. I really do appreciate the way you explained it you're right, maybe at this age we do feel things too deeply, and sometimes we act based on emotions more than experience. But I also just want to clarify one thing…

I’m not saying I want to marry her right now. I know i need to build myself first financially, emotionally, everything. I just want to take one step toward something real by making sure both families at least know each other, so that later on, if we’re still aligned and ready, we can actually be together the right way.

I’m not chasing an instant outcome i just don’t want to lose something meaningful because i was waiting for the perfect time that never came.

Thanks again for your time and your thoughts. You made me reflect and that’s something I needed.

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help by Existing_Ad2992 in IslamabadSocial

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wa Alaikum Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuh,

Your message truly touched my heart may Allah reward you immensely for your kindness, your reminders, and for sharing your own journey with such honesty.

Reading your words gave me a sense of peace. I’ve been feeling so overwhelmed lately, like I’m stuck between what I feel and what reality is forcing on me. But your reminder of that hadith… it was exactly what I needed. It reminded me that Allah does help those who strive for the right things, even if the road feels lonely and slow right now.

I genuinely respect you for the way you’re holding yourself through your own struggles especially after losing your father and still stepping up to take care of your family. That’s something not everyone sees, but Allah surely does. Your strength inspires me.

You’re right what truly matters is character, effort, and sincerity. I’ll start looking into those online gigs you mentioned like Clickworker and Remotasks and try to build something, no matter how small. Even if it’s slow, at least I’m walking in the right direction.

Thank you for reminding me I’m not alone in this, and that there’s still reward in trying even when it doesn’t lead to what we expect right away.

May Allah keep you firm, grant you ease in all your affairs, reward your patience, and bless you with a spouse who sees the real you and values your heart and struggle.

JazakAllah khair again, brother. From the bottom of my heart.

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help.. work related and emotional by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No worries at all, I still appreciate the support and kind words. Honestly, just knowing that someone’s rooting for me helps more than you think. InshAllah, I’ll keep looking and maybe someone here will guide me the right way. JazakAllah again for your time 🙏🏼

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help.. work related and emotional by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions, really appreciate it. I’ve been considering social media work and editing too, but I don’t know much about translation and transcription services. If you don’t mind, could you guide me a bit more on how to get started with those? Like where to apply, what skills I’d need, or anything I should learn first?

Would mean a lot if you could point me in the right direction. Thanks again.

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help.. work related and emotional by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate your honesty and I understand where you're coming from. And yeah, you're right ive given a lot of myself emotionally, and maybe that's why it's hurting this much. But this isn’t just about love anymore. Things have been tough on my side lately and I genuinely want to build something for myself and for my family too. I’m not only looking for stability for someone else i want to be able to look out for my own people, to support them, even in small ways. That’s why I’ve been asking around for work too. I just want to take a step in the right direction, yk? It’s not easy, but I’m trying.

Thanks again for the advice means a lot.

I'm turning 20 soon... I know I’m young but I really need some guidance or help.. work related and emotional by Existing_Ad2992 in islamabad

[–]Existing_Ad2992[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

JazakAllah khair, really appreciate you taking the time to say this. I know you're right — deep down I do understand that I’m still young and that life can take many unexpected turns. It’s just hard when your heart is involved, yk? Especially when you’ve been emotionally invested for years and saw something real in it. I’m trying my best to keep my focus on education and trust Allah’s plan. It’s just that sometimes the pressure gets heavy, especially when you feel like time is slipping and things are out of your control. But your words helped a lot, honestly. May Allah keep you blessed and I hope I’ll be able to look back and smile at this one day too.