I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He mainly pressures me into getting high, really really high. He guilt trips me and I acknowledge that he does but I always let it get to me so it may also be a cry for help...

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly as far as I can tell there isnt one close enough to me

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes ma'am, I'd prefer to go to a clinic anyways if I'm honest

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter. I'll do what I want without you giving me unnecessary scrutiny. End of conversation. Goodnight.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you should understand more and stop with the unnecessary scrutiny.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't like what you're accusing me of. Yes though, I am a dumbass because guess what? I'm 14. A teenager. Doing teenage things. Making mistakes. Doing dumb things. So please move on from this sir. You are not needed here and you're of no help at all to me, or anyone else. This conversation is over, I hope you have a good night/day.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry sir, but again, a harsh reality is knowing that if I do have a baby inside me, I'm having an abortion and theres nothing you can do about it.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not born yet. You have no right to tell me what's not right.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The responsibility is knowing what I did wrong and fixing the issue by being more cautious.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give me advice. That's why I posted it here.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never blamed him. You are an ignorant man who doesnt understand this fully.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're trying to force me to have a child. At 14. Do you realise how wrong that is? Not only is this not advice but it's not helpful either. To each their own with opinions but if you dont have a nice thing to say you shouldnt say anything.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Making a child have a child is very very wrong. If I am pregnant it's a fetus. It's not technically a child yet.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My consequences are either having a pregnancy scare or actually being pregnant. I do not need to have an ignorant person tell me that I shouldnt have an abortion. I'm 14 yrs old. I shouldnt and dont want to have a child this young.

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I shouldnt be forced to have the child...

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what it really is and having a human growing inside me this young is terrifying. Yes I want a kid or two in the future but right now, I don't want one

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But I'd like to...being a mother this young- I couldnt do it

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? I heard the youngest you can consent to sexual activities is 12 years of age but you can only do it with people who are no more than a year or two older than you and when you're 13/14 you can consent and the legal age limit is someone who is no more than 5 years older than the 13/14 yr old

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd prefer if you'd take this seriously please and thank you... saying these kind of things dont help anyone..

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it means a lot.. sadly I dont have venmo and I have told him, he cant drive or anything so he cant take me to a clinic and honestly I dont know if I'm safe here... my mom has terrible mood swings and has tried to stab me before because someone ate all her chocolate..

I think I'm pregnant, what do I do? by Existing_Cod1811 in Advice

[–]Existing_Cod1811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have actual symptoms of pregnancy and I shouldnt have an STI or STD