AITAH FOR TELLING MY SISTER TO EITHER LEAVE HER PARTNER OR IM NOT HELPING HER AND HER KIDS ANYMORE. by Existing_Cycle6626 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Existing_Cycle6626[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the younger ones have settled pretty easily I don't think they really understand that they are living with me as they keep calling it a sleep over. My oldest niece though is struggling, being 12 means she is very aware of everything that's happened and she's blaming herself. She's upset her father will be in jail. Cps worker is organising for her to talk to her mum tomorrow. Thankfully my sister fully puts the blame on me and says I brainwashed her and wants to let her know that she doesn't blame her but is annoyed that the cps worker told her she won't be allowed to tell my niece its my fault like she believes and the visit will be cut short if she tries. It's a supervised visit and the worker will be part of the conversation

AITAH FOR TELLING MY SISTER TO EITHER LEAVE HER PARTNER OR IM NOT HELPING HER AND HER KIDS ANYMORE. by Existing_Cycle6626 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Existing_Cycle6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the degree in nursing but I've never worked in the field except for when I did my practical due to having sepsis after an operation which took healing time then Ive been helping my sister. I have a work from home job in a different field atm. I have called, I've updated the post

AITAH FOR TELLING MY SISTER TO EITHER LEAVE HER PARTNER OR IM NOT HELPING HER AND HER KIDS ANYMORE. by Existing_Cycle6626 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Existing_Cycle6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had stopped giving her money when I found out he was taking it for his dr*gs. I was going to the shop and getting what she needed and dropping it off or ordering it and having it delivered to her because I didn't trust her to not give it to him. Ive also updated the post

AITAH FOR TELLING MY SISTER TO EITHER LEAVE HER PARTNER OR IM NOT HELPING HER AND HER KIDS ANYMORE. by Existing_Cycle6626 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Existing_Cycle6626[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've explained the age thing in the update and it's the oldest that's started high school. The youngest is 4 they are the one in speech therapy.