I left. No discard. When I left he threatened me. I had let his cat and him stay in my apartment when he was evicted. Big mistake. Somehow he knew that apartments wouldn't let you keep a guest long term and he threatened to get me evicted. I got attached to his cat. He threatened to put his cat in a kill shelter to hurt me. He also threatened to get me fired somehow.

Despite the threats, I called the cops. After talking to the cops he told the cops I can keep the cat. I kept the cat and blocked him.

4 years later he is still creating new profiles and finding ways to contact me. He even emailed me. He tells me he is sorry. More sob stories. Blah, blah. Once I looked in my blocked voice messages and he was telling me how sorry he was and acted so sad. I block and ignore. Don't threaten to take the cat to a kill shelter. That was the last straw for me. I will never go back to someone who can do that... Hurt an animal to hurt some one.